because im still a virgin what should i do im 26 my guy firend is 18
2006-10-21 07:05:26 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im scared that it will hurt because i tried to do it once
2006-10-21 07:10:42 · update #1
hes cool so the age doesnt matter
2006-10-21 07:11:21 · update #2
im getting hot and i love foreplay should i go for it
2006-10-21 07:14:02 · update #3
i thought about doing some weed or drinking some liquor so i be relax
2006-10-21 07:15:19 · update #4
hell no husband aint coming this way
2006-10-21 07:16:56 · update #5
it is natural to be scared.. just make sure it is what you want to do before you do. It is amazing just go with it.LL..
2006-10-21 07:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by italliansweety67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing to worry about, being your first time, it is understandable you will be a little unsure. Just relax, take it easy, use lots of foreplay such as kissing and caressing, and when your ready it will be more comfortable. Try not to let him pressure you into doing it straight away, this could cause more discomfort than normal. When you are aroused after foreplay, your body produces a natural lubricant. If your hymen is still unbroken there will be some bleeding but not much.
2006-10-21 07:25:50 · answer #2 · answered by colin.christie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time is always a bit scary for us. After all, you really aren't sure what to expect, no matter what you have read or heard.
I would rather you had an older boyfriend who would have the experience to make it easier for you. A young one might get over-eager and just go for it.
When it was me, the pain was minimal, but one of my friends said for her it hurt a lot. I'm thinking it could be a physical difference or it could be the choice of partner.
Whatever the case, just relax and take all the time you need.
2006-10-21 07:13:25 · answer #3 · answered by busybody12 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it until you have said those wedding vows. You have waited this long, why indulge his 18 year old raging hormones? Wait until you find MR. PERFECT for you and then marry him. What a rare thing to give a husband ~~~ your virginity. So many girls have been around. Be different, don't follow the crowd. Just because "everybody" does it doesn't mean it right or a good thing.
2006-10-21 07:11:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No reason to be scared of the most pleasant, exciting, wonderful,
experience on earth.
Just go with the flow, it'll happen naautrally and you'll fly with the wind.
But why wait so long?, and why with someone 18 years younger?
You have everyone green with envy:):).
2006-10-21 07:11:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you're ready just yet. I'm 19 and I think that you're making the wrong decision having sex with a guy friend who is 18. There is nothing wrong with the age difference, it's just that it seems like you are looking for lust not love. Wait til you get married. I am.
2006-10-21 07:09:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all, find a man who is interested in you, not a boy who is interested in your body. Secondly, never compromise your virtue. It NEVER pays dividends. Why would a man ever show you respect unless you demand it of yourself. Preserve the most valuable gift you have to give. When you present it to the right man unblemished, he will cherish it, and you, all the more.
2006-10-21 07:11:11 · answer #7 · answered by john c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW ABOUT JUST WAITING UNTIL U MARRY I MEAN WHATS THE RUSH U ARE A WOMAN
WAIT FOR YOUR HUSBAND HE DESERVES IT HE'LL COME SOON ENOUGH
OR U CAN HAVE SEX WITH THIS PERSON WHO MAY HAVE NOTHING MORE THAN PHYSICAL ATTRACTION TO U WHO'LL LEAVE ONCE HE TAKES IT
U KNOW HOW MANY WOMEN HAVE MALE FRIENDS THEY HAVE BEEN COOL WITH FOR DECADES AND STILL SEEK ONE THING FROM THEM
SEX
HOLD ON TO YOUR VIRGINITY IT IS SO SPECIAL I MEAN MORE THAN WHAT U THINK IT IS
WAIT FOR SOME KIND OF COMMITMENT
A STRONG WOMAN WAITS
A WEAK WOMAN FALLS VICTIM UNDER INFLUENCE,LUST AND TEMPTATION
BE STRONG BECAUSE SO MANY OF US WISH WE HAD.
GOOD LUCK AND ILL BE PRAYING FOR U.
2006-10-21 07:15:38 · answer #8 · answered by SWEET S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 26 you should dump him and get a guy of about 30, he will be much more experienced and considerate.
2006-10-21 07:11:49 · answer #9 · answered by Kango Man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get it over with. The longer you leave it, the more of a complex you'll have about it. You'll find that sex is not the big deal you think it is, just remember to do it safely. You don't want to get pregnant or catch a disease.
2006-10-21 07:11:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to ask yourself why youre scared; are you scared that youre boyfriend wont like what he sees? are you scared that it might hurt? you have to overcome these fears in order to enjoy sex. im assuming this is why youre still a virgin. i also suggest giving it up to a guy as mature as you instead of an 18yr old boy. wait until youre comfortable, you dont want to give it up to someone who isnt worth it.
2006-10-21 07:10:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋