I'm 20 years old, and this is my Junior year of college. So many of my friends already know they are going to get married to their boyfriends. Others are engaged already. And Others are having their wedding this coming spring. I have NO IDEA who im going to marry. Now im not even sure if the "right" guy is out there for me. Will I ever find the "right" guy for me?
2006-10-21 06:42:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes you will!
I know this sounds harder than you think... but don't go around comparing yourself to your friends.
When I was single, I had NO PROBLEM not having a guy. They were so much drama and I didn't want that in my life.
Stop looking for love and it will come when you least expect it.
Trust me. It's happened to me. He was right under my nose the entire time.
2006-10-21 06:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't despair because you are only 20!! I have two daughters and I am hopeful that they will wait at least until they are 25 to get married. At twenty, you are not really mature enough to make a life long decision. I got married when I was 23 and ended up divorced after 16 years. I think I was too young to know who I was and we both changed so much. I am now 40 and will be very particular about who I settle down with. I say take your time and date enough men to know who you are compatible with. Have fun and when you are ready to get serious, you will have had the experiences to know what works for you.
2006-10-21 13:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient! I always thought that I would never find the "right" one. Eventually, she showed up to me. I wasn't looking either because when I would look for the "right" one, it would go against me. So I tell ya, just be patient and he'll show up. Like they say...the best things happen to those who wait....Good Luck!
2006-10-21 14:23:15 · answer #3 · answered by T_Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young yet, you have plenty of time to find Mr. Right. The minute that you stop looking is when you will find him.
2006-10-21 13:44:44 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 20yrs old you havent lived yet..lol umm the right guy is outhtier for you if you havent found him yet is cuz you haent looked for him or found him cuz you know your not ready too ssettle down.. if your truely ready too settle down you would of found mr right
2006-10-21 13:46:10 · answer #5 · answered by onegreatbaker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you wont find him. he will find you. if you go looking for the "right person" you will never find them. believe me i tried. but the second i stoped looking, a girl came to me and we clicked instantly. so i just say relax and let it come to you.
2006-10-21 13:46:02 · answer #6 · answered by cr4is2py0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son is a sophomore in college - where do you go? (Just
tell me the state.)
2006-10-21 13:45:29 · answer #7 · answered by judy f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will its just for you its not your time yrt, try not to think about it and think about your friends more and then you will be so happy, then it will just pop up out of no where it will be so ramdom.
2006-10-21 14:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you just haven't yet.
2006-10-21 13:44:24 · answer #9 · answered by RockwallCat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you will find him .. you are very young and there will be loads of chances
2006-10-21 13:44:14 · answer #10 · answered by s s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋