is it ok 4 him to finger me? would i sound like a sl-t? i think that would feel so great and sexy but what do you guys think?
2006-10-21 06:37:26 · 15 answers · asked by T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I thin you should wait because he will want more than that after he starts and you don't. Just go home and do it yourself.
2006-10-21 06:49:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you feel is alright. But know that one thing leads to another. He won't finger you for too long before he starts asking for other forms of intercourse. Letting him finger you won't make you a sl-t but giving him head or having sex after dating him 5 months will.
2006-10-21 13:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by cyber_music 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are but teenage promiscuity has always seemed to make girls look degraded. I have more respect for those who wait. Not necessarily until you are married but at least in a long time, trusting relationship. At the same time, I envied my friends who were nailing a different girl every week but in my mind, I was comfortable with myself and respected my girlfreind for having the sense to say no. I also never sent any girls to the abortion clinic like some of my friends did. It's about respect.
2006-10-21 13:45:46 · answer #3 · answered by Gregg J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Already fingering you huh? It really depends...have you had sex with him already? If so, whats the point in holding off you even said, "would feel great and sexy". Its your body and you can do whatever you want.
2006-10-21 13:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by ♪♫♫♪ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well from a girls point of view of course its ok jus as long as you want to!! as for sounding like a slut, what happens between you and him should be private and let him know that, if he is de type to go off bragin to his freinds well lets jus say he is a bit too childish..
2006-10-21 13:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by simply B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've had sex with guys before a month do go 4 it!
2006-10-21 13:40:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah, its ok, as long as its legal. its different with each person. ive been in a relationship where we didnt do anything for two months. ive also been in a relationship where we ****** the first night we were together. it is up to you and if you want him to.
2006-10-21 13:40:23 · answer #7 · answered by cr4is2py0 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is part of growing up and play to make you open your legs.
2006-10-21 13:39:18 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what u think is right, if you're ok with him doing it then fine--unless u r really young and then u should stay home till ur old enough.
2006-10-21 13:43:09 · answer #9 · answered by Lana 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should wait until you get to know him better.
2006-10-21 13:39:09 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋