hi met her a 2 years back in college.. we grew very close and then she started lovin me .. even i liked her an thought that i loved her, but now i am not sure... i am always confused.. she is not that gud lukin an wen i see other pretty girls i get attracted an i wish that i get someone that pretty.. but some times i miss my girlfriend too wen i am alone i my house an i feel that i love her.. i don know wat to do.. she truly loves me and i dont want to play with her life.. how do i kinw whether i love her or not ? its been a year since we have paired up...pl help..
2006-10-21 06:29:15 · 26 answers · asked by dreamer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just answered your own question. Stop being a wuss. if you miss her when your not with her then you do love her unless your just afraid of being alone. Communicate with her and tell her how you feel. Maybe you need to give each other space for a couple of weeks. Let her know during that time period you are going to see one other person. Go out and ask one of those prettier girls out. I guarantee you you will be back with the old gf.
Grass always looks greener on the other side.
2006-10-21 06:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by steve s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that clubs and bars are such good grounds for hook ups, it kind of makes it difficult to meet people anywhere else. You could go for an in between and try meeting girls at gigs, because at least then you have the common interest of liking the same music. You can work on something from there and maybe ask somebody out, at least for the practice. Or try spending time in a public place semi-regularly and seeing if you see the same people over again. Maybe go to a park or a library and see if anybody catches your eye. If they do, find something that you could talk to them about, even if it's just a passing comment. After that every time you see each other you can at least say 'hello' and build up from there. Maybe flirt with a waitress in a coffee shop, just make yourself known. As for your third paragraph, girls probably are sending you signals but you're missing them. It happens all the time with people knowing when others are being flirted with but not themselves. Ask a friend (who you trust and won't be mean about it) to keep their eye open for you (or be a wing man). Don't worry about what your friends are doing, take things at your own pace. I know it's hard not to get hung up on everybody else and it makes you feel left behind, but you're 20, you needn't sign your life away so soon. :)
2016-05-22 07:51:34 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think your that into her anymore. Your 20 yrs old...thats still pretty young, and your still growing as an adult. A lot of things can change and you know what to do. I think you like this girl in a caring way, you might love her too....but your not IN LOve with her. Maybe you should break it off take some time and see what happens. Good Luck!!!
2006-10-21 06:38:41 · answer #3 · answered by ♪♫♫♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask it is not love, but more of a habit. Stay away from each other for several weeks. Basically take a break...Then go out again, get a fresh perspective and you can see how you feel having been away.
2006-10-21 06:32:57 · answer #4 · answered by chris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look, everyones feelings are important.Think good wether you love her or not.If you come to the conclusion that you don't then leave her to find someone who's apropiate for her and you do the same thing. Don't screw with her feelings., and yours. Take a day off be alone and decide your feelings for her.If you end up by the end of the day thet you don't love her let her go.The basics of a relation are LOVE TRUST RESPECT.If you lack one of them end that relation before it explodes in your face.
2006-10-21 06:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by DUKE OF SEGOREAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down. You are too young, too interested in having just a pretty girl. Take more time to look at what you each are about. Infatuation is a fun time, not to get too serious.
2006-10-21 06:35:35 · answer #6 · answered by desertflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r perhaps in love. ut if u want to be sure then u should check it urself...........Just answer the following and find out urself whther u love her or not.
What is love? When we claim that it's love that we have for someone,are we correct? Something to ponder upon.....
Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing and is your voice caughtwithin your chest?
It isn't love, it's like.
You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I right?
It isn't love, it's lust.
Are you proud, and eager to show them off?
It isn't love, it's luck.
Do you want them because you know they're there?
It isn't love, it's loneliness.
Are you there because it's what everyone wants?
It isn't love, it's loyalty.
Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand?
It isn't love, it's low confidence.
Do you stay for their confessions of love, because you don't want to hurt them?
It isn't love, it's pity.
Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat?
It isn't love, it's infatuation.
Do you pardon their faults because you care about them?
It isn't love, it's friendship
Do you tell them every day they are the only one you think of?
It isn't love, it's a lie.
Are you willing to give all of your favourite things for their sake?
It isn't love, it's charity.
Does your heart ache and break when they're sad?
Then it's love.
Do you cry for their pain, even when they're strong?
Then it's love.
Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it hurts?
Then it's love.
Do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and relation pulls you close and holds you there?
Then it's love.
Do you accept their faults because they're a part of who they are?
Then it's love.
Are you attracted to others, but stay with them faithfully without regret?
Then it's love.
Would you allow them to leave you , not because they want to but because they have to?
Then its love.
Would you give them your heart, your life, your death?
Then it's love.
Now, if love is painful, and tortures us so, why do we love?
Why is it all we search for in life?
This pain, this agony?
Why is it all we long for?
This torture, this powerful death of self? Why?
The answer is so simple because it's...LOVE.
Love is such an addiction that even people who are not having it wish to experience and share it with others.
And if u find that u r really in love with her then just Accept it because very few peoples are there who really obtain their love. Just do not let it go. It comes just once in life.
2006-10-21 07:01:03 · answer #7 · answered by Raj.. Jaane tu ya Jaane Na 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she loves u so much truely then why r u confused .love her lot.do not think that physical appearence is everything to love.if u feel attachment with her and cannot live without her then why u look on other girls.love her bcoz Pyaar kise kise nu hi naseeb hunda hai.pyaar bina zindagi nahin
2006-10-21 06:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like u just want a better looking girl
does ur gf good to u? treat u right? care for u?
if she does
once u loose her, u won't get the same again
2006-10-21 06:42:28 · answer #9 · answered by Let me know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not completely sure that you want to spend the rest of your lives together, than please DONT marry. I feel you should both date others, as well as each other. You will know in time if you both want the same thing. Please dont do anything on a whim. All GOOD things take TIME! ;)
2006-10-21 06:35:33 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋