umm yeah i've been going out w/ my boyfriend since the 12 of september...and homecoming is the 28th....and umm when he asked me to go with him i sayd yess....and i really dont care for dancing..just slow dances...and i just found out im on my time of the month that day (ladies u kno what im talking about *wink*) and i want to tell him that...so whats the best way to tell him NOW about my umm pmsing lol and that i dont like dancing...i should tell him but then he will be mad i think...because i didnt say anything before...i was scared he would make fun of me but now i realize he would NEVER do that...so what should i do now?
2006-10-21 06:26:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound young and you haven't been with your b/f long so therefore sex should not be on the agenda. That much said you have no need to tell him that your "friend" will be around at that time. You should tell him you don't care for dancing that much, unless it's slow dancing that way he knows you may just be "hanging out" at the dance. If he is upset about it, suggest dinner and a movie instead of the dance. Be honest about your feelings with the dance though, that's the key in all relationships.
2006-10-21 06:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i never understood why a woman dont wanta have sex when they are pmsing.. its just the same if your not pmsing just a little moree juicy.. umm sharing ones passion should be determand on pms.. it should be a feelings.. course im a man i dont dance either slow dance yess cuz the bump and grind thing works..lol but im sure youll do find if you just be honest and trueful and sayin you wanted too go dont mean you gotta dance the whole time the dance last.. and like i said if you deside too have sex and your pmsing whats the big deal go for it
2006-10-21 13:32:04 · answer #2 · answered by onegreatbaker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wanna go and spend time with him i would go i say take some midol and have fun you dont have to dance you can just go and hang out and request some slow songs from the dj. But if ur really against it just talk to him
2006-10-21 13:30:21 · answer #3 · answered by sdmk@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him. not all guys are assholes, some of us actually give a $hit about a girl. if that is the case, just tell him, he will be fine with just being with you. dont shut him out at the dance though. i understand you will be pmsin, but if he is understanding with you, you have to show it back or it will all be for nothing
2006-10-21 13:32:01 · answer #4 · answered by cr4is2py0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-23 01:08:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you need to do is tell him the honest truth. Aunt Flow came to visit and you can't do anything for a while.
2006-10-21 13:29:25 · answer #6 · answered by Skittles-Dark Edition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him if u really think he'll get mad than find the right time to tell him
2006-10-21 13:31:59 · answer #7 · answered by Flirtatious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him straight. he should be aware of these things. if not, make him aware, if insted of being understanding he gets mad or whatever, then leave this stupid guy.
2006-10-21 13:32:09 · answer #8 · answered by alien0n05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him about it
2006-10-21 13:29:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth..he will understand that..
2006-10-21 13:43:29 · answer #10 · answered by JHOSH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋