The bad *** kid always gets the girl? I am an attractive, nice kid with a great personality and it seems like girls always want the druggie or the gangster. And girls always say it has to do with personality, not looks.
2006-10-21 06:24:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
'Cause this is the way it is:
Tough guy- Boyfriend okay, husband no way
Nice guy- Boyfriend no way, husband okay
Young girls want excitement which tough guys give and women want security and trust which nice guys give.
You don't have to be bad to get girls though you will need to find something exciting. Join a sports team, band...
2006-10-21 06:32:54 · answer #1 · answered by tyreanpurple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the thing. Humans are idiots. If you tell them not to hang out with a certain person, they're going to do it. And it's nothing that can be done about it. You really shouldn't try to change though. Alot of girls will aprechiate a nice attractive kid with a great personality before they want a druggie. And not all girls say it has to do with personality. It's all about who that person hangs around.
2006-10-21 13:28:04 · answer #2 · answered by Skittles-Dark Edition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls want the bad *** kid because they just those ignorant people that don't give a damn and they are ignorant. I rather have a nice, smart, and a fun person than a hot but a drug attic kind of guy. Don't let those stupid girls turn you down! There's many girls that actually think and choose the right guy.
2006-10-21 13:32:06 · answer #3 · answered by shewolf2899 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you've got a problem too. I've got about the same problem. Except the guys I like go after this s l u t who always takes everything away from me. I hate her soo much! Not every girl wants a bad boy. I don't want one. I don't want no trouble getting anywhere near me. And I don't want to be caught in it either. You'll run across some girl who will think you're a god. I'm positive about that. Good luck
2006-10-21 13:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brett, I'm sure you're a nice guy, but that doesn't mean you will always finish last with the ladies. When I was alot younger, I went after those "bad boys" and I usually always got hurt, either emotionally or physically or both. As I got older, those "bad boys" started losing their appeal. They only think of sex and partying, being bullies to nice guys like you, and they couldn't hold a job unless it was dealing drugs. And as far as being educated, most have no ambition because the drugs don't allow them to think for themselves. So you hang in there. The right girl will come along and she will consider herself blessed to have a good guy like you!
2006-10-21 13:34:31 · answer #5 · answered by leigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It goes hand in hand with older girls as well. Younger woman usually don't know what they want. Tehy're experiementingm, and usually not in the right way. Honestly, be patient. Someone has probably said it a million times, but in the future, you're going to be snatched up with a quickness. Woman would kill for someone like you. Right now they just don't have a feel on what kind of guy is best for them.
2006-10-21 13:27:31 · answer #6 · answered by catch22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're right, it's because bad guys and gangsters are always in charge, strong, in control and so on...This emits power which is something very attractive in a guy. Guys should be in control and never let girls control them. That's pretty much why.
2006-10-21 13:28:47 · answer #7 · answered by Triathlete88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young girls are attracted to the bad boys because on t.v. they are always good looking and in the end turn out to be wonderful men. It's a rebelion thing, they want to go after someone mommy and daddy will not approve of and are looking for excitement in their life. In time, as girls turn into women, your type turns out to be what they really want.
2006-10-21 13:27:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's because you're jealous of others and therefore think all kinds of **** about them when they're probably nice guys.
Being a jealous hater is not attractive to women or people in general.
2006-10-21 13:26:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to go for those kind of guys but now I'm into guys that are wide and kind a cute and we have to be compatable.
2006-10-21 13:27:25 · answer #10 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋