okay so me and my boyfriend just went through this whole argument type thing on msn about how people keep telling me to dump him and he said that if i want out its my chance and i said i want to be with him but if he wants out thats okay...then he said he really wants to be with me but his friend that doesnt like me and is against us going out becuz were 2 years difference put doubt in his mind and he doesnt know why hes doubting..then i said i really want to be with him and why is he doubting if he doesnt know why and if i was listening to those people i would have broken up with him by now..then he said hes here to stay and hes not going to break up with me over a stupid doubt his friend put in his head...what do i say now??
2006-10-21 06:20:53 · 17 answers · asked by Kelsey's Mommy<3 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well while u fell in love with ur boyfriend did u ask ur friends permission to fall in love with each other too :-?( wondering) coz if u did ask ur friends for their permission to love then u both as well may ask their permission to break up or decide on ur relationship too...
U know wat never listen to anyone coz there are many jealous people out there who can't c people being happy or there are really some very few genuine people who care for u and ur happiness but when it comes to the matter of ur heart I'd say listen to ur gut feeling listen to wat ur heart says and decide with a cool head for the right thing.
I think u and ur boyfriend shud meet up and talk it face to face not over the messenger thats not how to c each others expressions do one thing talk to ur boyfriend and see his eyes if hez really in love with u and wants u he will look u in the eye and reply to u honestly bout the way he feels don't fight but talk real talk discuss as couple not as public eye romance wat u mentioned u have put ur relationship on PUBLIC DISPLAY AND OPINIONS which isn't fair to either of u.
A good friend wud never suggest u to break up this easily they wud ask u to talk it out properly and the decide so I hope u do the right thing. BEST LUCK AND CHEERS
2006-10-21 07:37:31 · answer #1 · answered by kittana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me like there is an excuse lingering in there somewhere as to why you should both breakup. Why listen to anyone else (unless maybe it's your parents)? Listen to each other and to your gut feelings. I will say that maybe the friends are seeing things that the two of you don't particularly want to see about your relationship. You can take it all into consideration, but listen to your gut.
2006-10-21 13:26:08 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your probably a little heated over the friend situation, but why make it worst at this point. Do you want his friend to get his way??? I think not! Look your BF already told you he wants you....so stop the drama and let it go. Remeber its you and your BF, not your friends or his. You and your BF need to keep your friends out of the relationship or else this would always happen. Good Luck!!!
2006-10-21 13:29:59 · answer #3 · answered by ♪♫♫♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're happy with each other, don't listen to what other people say. You're friends are, however, just looking out for you. They care about you. Tell him you want to stay with him if he has no doubts about wanting to be with you.
2006-10-21 13:24:45 · answer #4 · answered by catch22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you say? You say good, because your with him not his friend, are you? Tell him how you feel, like I want you to be here to stay and not go anywhere. You two need to stop listening to what these people say and listen to your heart and mind, take it in thought. You two are dating each other, not your family and friends. So you can listen to them but you don't have to do what they say to do.
2006-10-21 13:25:40 · answer #5 · answered by delawaregirl83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Goodness, is this more about what your friends think than how much you care for each other?? If you want to be together,
then why are you listening to such junk from other people?
Work out your own feelings & go from there!
2006-10-21 13:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm... wow... Well, if you want to be with him, forget all the other stuff and just say "okay"... Don't let others dictate your decision. (Although if you're in high school, which is seems, there will be many more you will go through this with, so you'll be okay).
2006-10-21 13:25:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to stop listening to other people and do what you want to do. Don't let others tell you what to do.
2006-10-21 13:25:17 · answer #8 · answered by Jack1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell him exactly how you feel. I don't like to put "words" into people's mouth. You just express yourself. Watch out for this one though because sometimes, even though they say that friends don't interfere, THEY DO!!!!
2006-10-21 13:23:40 · answer #9 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say I change my mind and I'm gonna dump your caboose and go out w/person20 ;)
2006-10-21 13:24:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋