ok....so i'm in 7th grade and i like this 9th grader.....he's really funny and most of the time he's nice....i was nice to him until he called me f*g for no reason at all....then i got mad so i called him a homo....like pretty much whenever i see him....last night i was at a football game with a couple of my friends and he was there too....whenever we walked past him i called him a homo.....then eventually he walked up to me and asked me why me and my friends call him a homo.....i feel really bad...should i feel bad??? don't tell me to grow up cause that's really annoying
2006-10-21 06:14:08 · 8 answers · asked by bball_rox_lots 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You took it too far and you said it too much. If you said it once or twice then fine that's ok, but more than that then you're actually trying to hurt him (and obviously succeeding). Best thing to do is to tell him you're sorry. But, it's weird that he called you a f*g for no reason. So maybe you should just forget about him altogether.
2006-10-21 06:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by Triathlete88 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't u just go upto him apologise say ur sorry for calling him a homo and also say sorry on ur friends behalf and tell him why u started to call him homo tell him since he had called u a F*G initially u felt bad and u retorted with something like this to get back at him see wat he says and then u can decide if u really want to even keep liking the guy.
What u did was perfectly natural u got even with him but maybe u did go a bit ahead with this name calling thingy well I'd say just plain avoid the guy after u apologise and maybe just maybe he mite like u and get after u :) who knows he may try to woo u now guess thats wat u wud like but there is other possibility too but I suppose u have nothing to lose if he doesn't get back to u then just plain move ahead and try liking some other cute kid.
2006-10-21 06:37:07 · answer #2 · answered by kittana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one, he called you a fag..but only that one time. most likely he was joking around.
with what you are doing is not just one time, but all the time. if anything you are serisouly annoying him by calling him that every time you 2 see each other.
and having your friends do the same is just as bad.
that is the worst way to show him you like him.
you need to stop, and show him more kindness, and get your friends to shut up too.
good luck.
2006-10-21 06:18:21 · answer #3 · answered by dragonsclaw27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll grow up with time dont worry. and u should feel guilty and ask him to forgive you and u must also forgiv him for what he said. and u can become friends at least. as he is a boy he will accept u as a friend
2006-10-21 06:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u should'n feel bad because he call u first somethin and guys are sometimes jerks and sometimes they r cool
2006-10-21 06:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes crazy.... dont feel bad
2006-10-21 06:16:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if he likes you back he will look past it.
2006-10-21 06:18:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u is a kind guy so......u fell sorry about him.Take it easy
2006-10-21 06:18:27 · answer #8 · answered by Dervck C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋