My bf supposedly does not like his ex. gf yet keeps her number in his contacts even though they are not speaking supposedly?Does this sound fishy if i had not put pressure on him not to talk to her anymore he still would.I know for a fact he does not call her i saw the phone bill but i cant understand why he has not deleated her!Last time i asked he said he ould get too it but still has not!now 3 months have passed.
2006-10-21 06:09:14 · 23 answers · asked by Jen v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Could he still have feelings for her?
2006-10-21 06:10:09 · update #1
In a text that was one of the last sent he to her he called me a bi+ch. I wonder if he is falling out of love with me and is only staying for sex.
2006-10-21 06:18:00 · update #2
Sounds fishy to me. If you have doubts and the trust is no longer there, move on. LL.
2006-10-21 06:11:27 · answer #1 · answered by italliansweety67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if the guy sendx his EX a sms and calls his present gf a Bit*H wtf do u think it means ??? sure u can understand that this guy is just using u seems like he is playing it safe coz if u are not good enuf for him and if he just walks out on u he may need some kinda support and thats wat he has done kept his EX 's number with him just to b sure oh btw how wud u know if he does call her or not form a pay phone or a telephone booth u'd never know that or say from his office well there are many possibilities babes of getting in touch if he has her number and even if he did delete her number he can always memorise the number it's this ex who has to have forgotten bout him or u r in deep Sh*t if i care for this guy I'd say hez a loser but then u know best wat ur guys like...and u r surely doubting too much by checking the telephone bills and all means like there is no trust in this relationship seems to me like both of u r just saying in just for S*x well try to judge ur feelings and maybe talk to him openly and get the matter resolved it's no use doubting it'll not help u keep this relationship for long...so if u want to keep this one u need to talk and maybe just trust him...and see how things work out but if he calls u Bit*h and that too to his EX it sounds lame to me :(
2006-10-21 15:56:51 · answer #2 · answered by kittana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, he could possibly still have feelings for his ex. Because why is it taking him so long to delete her phone number? If he would still talk to her if you didn't ask him not to and if he did that's a bad sign. Stuck in the past or something like that. What is taking him so long to delete the number? Three months is too long. You should talk to him about it and ask why? In less it doesn't bother you.
2006-10-21 13:13:59 · answer #3 · answered by delawaregirl83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 Things, First if he still has the number he's clinging to something. We could guess what but that's not as important as the fact that it takes 2 seconds to to delete. Second if your sure he's not seeing her or communicating with her then get over your insecurity. If you keep hanging yourself up over little things then you will find yourself in failing relationships because of your insecurity's.
2006-10-21 13:19:00 · answer #4 · answered by One H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u look close enough u should notice some thing fishy i'd confront him about it and tell him that you dont want her number or to have any thing going on but if he keeps doing it he must think you are not the most important thing to him so call it quits but try to stay friends
2006-10-21 13:13:19 · answer #5 · answered by mrsfalloutboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it about his motivation that you don't get about your bf calling you a bad name. It's not fishy, he flat out thinks you badly of you.
Look, relationships aren't built on "rules" or "keeping" or "pressure" but on honest, open, give and take and on honoring and respecting each other. You don't have what you need in this one do you?
2006-10-21 13:45:49 · answer #6 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, Maybe. I still have feeling for my ex(who I cheated on my BF with) but we agreed nothing past second base so my BF accept that. Maybe talk to him about it and decide on a solution together.
2006-10-21 13:16:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you're being paranoid. You're overthinking it and over-reacting. I keep a lot of girls' numbers who I don't talk to and I don't like anymore. It's normal guys are like that. You're putting too much pressure on him. Guys are just like that. Imagine if some girlfriend of a previous boyfriend tried to delete you completely from his memory and make him forget about you completely ?
2006-10-21 13:12:25 · answer #8 · answered by Triathlete88 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should not worry about a phone number. Focus on the fact that he is with you now and if he did not love you but her, don`t you think he would leave you??? Or has he not shown you that he is in love with you?
2006-10-21 13:14:26 · answer #9 · answered by Eileen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be holding on to it for some deeper reason. Maybe he still has some attachment issues with her and that phone number is all he has left of her.
2006-10-21 13:11:22 · answer #10 · answered by questionseeker46539 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋