I am a good girl dating a bad boy but want the relationship to last and work is this possible?How do i learn to beat him at his own game when i now nothing of the game?My friends say unless i learn fast and adapt to have some street smarts and control him and the situation it wont work is this true?they say i am too nice and let him get away with too much?
2006-10-21 05:57:04 · 7 answers · asked by Jen v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look for a good boy!
2006-10-21 06:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a ex bad gurl dating a really bad boy everyone calls him the KING of Thugs for crying out load. and I am trying to calm down and it is hard. I am having my own problems but let me tell you this much don't try to conrol anyone. It will explode in your face you will just scrare him away from you. stick up for yourself , and don't let him walk all over you. and as far as letting him get away with to much. If it does not bug you what he does then don't worry about ti. because if you do you will be making a big deal out of nothing. I made that mistake and now I am just trying to take it back and work everything out. Everyone tolled me that he walks on me so I walked right back and gurl at the end of the night I was the only one being a *****. and I just let everyone else get to me. Because what is not acceptable for one person is acceptable for anouther. so don't be controling just stand your ground. and if he does something and it bugs you say something and if it doesn't just leave it alone. And bad boys have a thing for good gurls. so good luck to you
2006-10-21 13:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a good girl too. I daited alot of bad boys. We lasted 2years. Then we brokeup b/c he and I were moving to diffrent places. I let him get away with alot to. I was also new to the game. Don't change and Its not true the situation will work its self out eventually. Don't worry the game ends when the bad boy falls in love. I learned that when I daited my bad boy. The game was over for him when he fell in love with me.Trust me everything will be ok.
2006-10-21 13:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love to see relationships like yours crash and burn. I say get out of the relationship and go for someone who shares your same values. Your man is going to go to jail/prison or get shot in his face one day. The bad boy thing is stupid to begin with why not go for a guy in college or something like that, oh yeah, you need excitement. Hold on and you will get it, in the form of a serious beatdown courtesy of Mr.Badboy, or the cops putting a gun in your face when they pull him over for whatever dumb things he does.
2006-10-21 13:03:41 · answer #4 · answered by Brixton B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There really isn't a "game" it's more of a way of thinking and a way of life. You either get it or you don't and since you don't it's best you forget about him and move on.
2006-10-21 13:06:23 · answer #5 · answered by Triathlete88 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
thats right you cant change anyone,its not easy.hha guys,they may try to convince you to their level best but trust me with time it fades away,infact you may want to give up into changing him instead or may have to live up as per his wishes,so if he is not your type or bad as you say,i dont know what you really mean,just stay safe.
2006-10-21 13:10:42 · answer #6 · answered by jane24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men want to please the woman they love..they dress how u like ..cut their hair how u like ..even buy the color of vehicle u like and these are the preliminarys..why is he wanting to not do what pleases u?..think long and hard b4 u continue this relationship..and honey noone changes for anyone we adapt and blend with each other..
2006-10-21 13:02:17 · answer #7 · answered by dreamy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋