scared and worried abit freaked?

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this is really something im having a lot of trouble thinking about.
bascially to cut a long story short, someone sent a letter to my house.addressed to my dad and not written in english.but in my other language which i do not know how to read or write.my dad didnt open it my mum did.it bascially said to my dad that im [his daughter] and my name was written, i am going around with some guy and it named most of the places we apprently went to.it says ive ben to his house, the west end and along with few other places.the letter was almost detailed account fo what i did.and the worse thing is how does this person happen to turn up at all these places and whats it got to do with this person.if sone one is so concerend about my whereabouts, wouldnt normal people just come up to and talk to me, or even tell my dad face to face, why write a anonymous letter im really shcoked.......im 21 for gods sake and i wasnt even doing anything wrong....how dare this person who i have no idea who it is, why are they doing this.dont otehr people do this.i know a million people go to a kmillion places everyday i just cant see why this happened to me.the letter bascially said that my dad should have more control of me and that i was going out with some bloke [and i shouldnt be...]letter said that my paretns are really good peole and how cold i bring a bad name to them,/it was writeen in a sympathetic tone towards my father but that would obviously make it look believable.

ps..] the event they spoke of happened more than 6 months ago....so they all mentioned old things
2] it was written in another language...i dnt know anyone my age who can write in that language excpet someone my dads ages.....like an uncle
3] i just done understand why someone wud write a letter home.why not just tell my dad to his face...are they being cunning or doing something they think is for the best
the letter said i didnt want to tell you to your face as it would embarses my dad
but writiing a letter? that wouldnt make it worse?how could someone be so cunning...i just dont get it..why someone would do it....wouldnt writing a letter cause more grief?
AND APPenrently everyone is talking about me....probly saying `oh look at so and sos daughter the slag` even though i am not.....
im sscared as someone might be follwing me or i have no idea whats going on....its making my life a nightmare.....
whats going on
i havent showed my dad yet mum said it may cuase more bad than good...what shall i do...

Answer 1

First of all, try and identify the person. It appears to be someone fluent in your other language. It might also be a person who knows that you do not read or write in this other language but your father does. This should narrow your choices. Next read a good book or go to the internet to learn to detect stalker techniques so you can pick up signals when you are being followed. I dont know what the other language is but you should be able to narrow the suspects by who is fluent in this language and also knows or revers your father. Last, if need be , have someone you know follow you and see if they pick up on someone else doing the same thing.

Answer 2

First, some busybody is not minding his or her own business. They are trying to start trouble between you and your Dad. If they were really concerned they'd just talk to him. It's like anonymous gossiping. I'd try to get someone to translate that letter to English for you and take the original and the copy to the police and let them know you're being stalked. Then the person doing this will probably be caught and learn not to stick their nose into other people's business. If you can't get it translated, make a copy of it and take it to the police anyway. Tell them what your mother said it said. They can probably find someone to translate it. This person needs to be stopped.

Answer 3

Don't fear.. It feels like a shaggy dog story. But If it's bothering you, speak in your mobilephone manufacturer and they are able to block the quantity for you and if it will get critical, move to the police. But provided that you get intimedated via it.

Answer 4

Wow, what a story, I hope all goes ok for you...good luck!!
~PEACE~