She always laughs at my stuff, makes fun of it and everyone hates her! I want her to be nice to everyone. even some parents hate her. i dont want her to be like that. what should i do, and she hates me the most! Shes like in 6h grade.
2006-10-21 05:41:45 · 13 answers · asked by scarblde 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hate is a cancer of the soul. She has this cancer in her soul. It has nothing to do with you. You are the target. She probably has other targets too. You represent someone to her that she wants to be like. She has not figured out how to be well adjusted and happy, so she reflects hate. She really is crying out for help. She wants to be more like you. Maybe you could confront her. Find out why she is feeling so negative inside of her. Try to encourage her and show her the good things she possess. It may be hard. You are actually a role model to her. Show her that you are worthy of the role. Rise above this. You can be her hero eventually and heal her too. She is young. It would be great to help her get over this while she is young enough to do so. When she gets more comfortable with you, reflect her behavior so that she can see how she is acting. If you just tell her, she will take it as an attack and resent it. If you let her come to see herself in her eyes..she will be ashamed of her behavior. Do the right thing. Now that you know that this is not about you but about her...it may be easier to deal with. You are a great friend/relative to be there to help her to be a better person. Many years from now, she will always remember your love and kindeness. Don't give up onher...in a sense she has given up on herself...she needs you! God bless.
2006-10-21 05:50:35 · answer #1 · answered by Shayna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like she thinks she's above everyone. I don't think you should do anything other than just be nice to her. You shouldn't give her any special attention, you'll just be looking for trouble. Just let her be whoever she is and let her make her own mistakes. You can tell her if she ever needs to talk, you're there to listen.
2006-10-21 05:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is to reach out to her and try to find out why she acts the way she does. Tell her your concerns. If she won't listen, let it go, you are better off without her.
2006-10-21 05:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. Maybe.. make a day.. with just u n her.. and make a list of things to do.. iunno.. Like... just sit at home watching movies together.. take pics.. throw popcorn at eachother.. lol. And just laugh. and make sure u let her do things she wants to do. hehe thats what I do! lol
2006-10-21 05:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1, are you older than her? be wise and ignore it. If that doesn't work talk to her. Maybe somethings wrong. Does you aunt and uncle know about it?
2006-10-21 05:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by Aliza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be nice to someone that hates you, tell her how you feel, find out why she hates you, and if theres no reson then stop talking to her
2006-10-21 05:44:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love her and give a tough kiss
2006-10-21 05:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by mohandas m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away and not talk to her and she will soon realize what is happening,I hope for you.
2006-10-21 05:52:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her make her own mistakes and u need to go ur own way .and let her be don't let her drag u down..
2006-10-21 05:45:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her.
2006-10-21 05:43:02 · answer #10 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋