Have you ever got to a point in yr life that you are at yr witts end? I just feel like screaming to the top of lungs " Leave me alone, deal with your own problems,get off my back! " to say the least. And when you need to vent? Who is around? No one because they expect you to listen to there problems always.
2006-10-21 05:38:27 · 8 answers · asked by PureLife 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Do you feel better now?
I have 3 kids, all older now, but I know exactly what you're going through. Even their Father would ask " where's their shoes?" etc.
You do all planning, shopping, I Hated the Holidays, and just about anything else that nobody wanted to do.
And what they did do still involved asking for your help.
If you can, take a drive by yourself. My sis had 3 kids also, we went away for a weekend every year, alone. No kids, No Husband, No Job. And we would sit in a hotel room eating, drinking,watching TV, and reading every tabloid we could find.
Is something like that possible for you?
2006-10-21 05:40:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hon' that is my life story! You need to go do something for yourself or go somewhere by yourself. Dont take a cell phone. If have kids, get a sitter you can trust to take care of any problem they might have while you are gone. The situation is called my cup is empty and everyone still wants a ******drink. lol! You need a chilled, relaxing, fun, be a kid vacation. Even if it is only overnight, let loose chicka! You deserve it. That should fill your cup back up and give you enough to start handin' out drinks again. Try only allowing sips though. Saves your sanity, dont let others cross boundaries and take advantage of you because your sanity is important too. Hugs
2006-10-21 13:11:06 · answer #2 · answered by determined26a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know all to well what you are going threw. i too listen to every ones problems and try to help. but when i need someone to talk to it seems they are not around, or when you do talk to them they either laugh it off or say nothing at all. and then here we are posting our questions on here, to a bunch of strangers. i have gone as far as shutting off my phone , not opening the door when someone knocks. it shouldn't have to be this way. so i think that from now on the people that want to tell me their problems all the time im just going to come out and tell them that i don't want to hear it. i guess that's all we can do. or get new friends. lol then we can listen to theirs.lol
2006-10-21 12:49:08 · answer #3 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean. people act like i don't have any problems and i should be the one figuring out theirs. sometimes they make me feel like it's against the law if i am having a bad day. but i do have bad days and i wanna scream and tell them to leave me the f*#k alone!
2006-10-21 12:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there, where people wanted me to listen to their problems but when it came for me to have them listen to my problems they weren't really listening and cared. What do you really want? Sounds like you need someone whose gone to actually listen to you like I do. Don't always help people with their problems, let them figure them out in less you really want to. But what about your problems?
2006-10-21 13:22:13 · answer #5 · answered by delawaregirl83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.ur not alone ,cant really give u advice for that but yes I've been their and u just have to go on.my best friend i live with her problems cause she's always got a problem..
2006-10-21 12:56:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on!! u always need sum1 to talk to or to be with especially in times of needs... 'no man is an island'
2006-10-21 12:47:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
behave like there is nothing to care about that's all
2006-10-21 12:49:05 · answer #8 · answered by kaboto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋