theres this guy from work i really like were really close always 2gether huggin and when we go out he always holds my hand. and yesterday we kissed full on snog in the kitchen at our work. but theres 1 big problem he has a gf hes been with her 4 over a year and says he h8s her guts and cant stand being with her anymore but yet hes still is. what do i do
2006-10-21 05:27:39 · 21 answers · asked by suga plum fairy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ah, been there, done that, fell for him hook, line and sinker...only to become the next expendable myself
2006-10-21 05:30:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should probably avoid the situation, but you probably wont. So take some real time to consider how much emotional joy and pain you will go thru as you persue this relationship and consider ESPECIALLY how it will make you feel if you go thru all the ups and downs and he still ends up going back to his girlfriend. He says he hates her, but he is talking about how he feels at that moment standing in front of you with your heaving breasts and puckered lips, not how he feels when they are together and having fun watching TV on the couch or bumping uglies in some parking lot somewhere. Also consider that fact that you probably wont be able to trust him if you actually end up together, because if he did it to her, he might just do it to you...
Good Luck
2006-10-21 05:36:19 · answer #2 · answered by capt don 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louders sometimes. Ok he fancies you true. BUT what kind of guy is still with a girl he hates........his honesty is in doubt. Does he just want a little extra helping maybe and is using the lie lie to have his wicked way then retreat back into teh security of a relationship he is safe(he thinks) in.
I would not indulge him more unless teh honesty side of things is sorted.
2006-10-21 08:39:54 · answer #3 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its the same old story, he needs to get a spine if hes telling you the truth, guess your way forward is to tell him 'no more snogs until he finishes with her' you can still be friends but thats it lol good luck
2006-10-21 06:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by darlinbabe_uk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats bad never ever kiss a guy when hes dating sumone especially knowingly it will make u feel guilty and you will have this angry girl coming after u if he wants u he would get rid of her till then hes just looking for a side dish to go with his main course
2006-10-21 05:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by Dustin Alberty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him string you along. If he is willing to cheat on his gf he will cheat on you. I know this is difficult to put into practice if you really like a guy. Take care of yourself.
2006-10-21 05:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by adrianne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i ma afraid he is cheating on you as well..why is he still with the gf if he does not wants... run and move faster than him...don't get involved with a guy who cheat and is been unfaithful to his gf... in the future could be you the one that he is cheating on.. or stop here and tell him to talk about this when he has finish with gf...and then you will see what to do...if he brack up or not with her..
2006-10-21 06:47:46 · answer #7 · answered by tenderpinklady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to be honest if he really hates his g/f that much than surly he would finish with her. Maybe he is telling you on what you want to hear.
He might be trying to have his cake and eat it too!
I would say to him that when you are single than come and find me than but please sort your life out first
give him the chance to really decide on what he wants instead of seeing hurt and risk hurting his g/f him and also you
good luck
2006-10-21 05:58:03 · answer #8 · answered by blondegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says he hates her but is still with her I would keep well away, at least until (and if) he dumps her. It sounds like he wants you both. Greedy....
2006-10-21 06:28:04 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's playing with you. if i were u I'll just play along and see where it comes 2
2006-10-21 05:42:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋