What's the problem here?
I hung out with a girl in college from a class of mine and she flirted with me. I asked her out, we hooked up a couple of times, and then she said it's a good idea we don't become romantically attached and just be friends. I told her that's fine and that I have no problem with that.
Then, she was like "I MEAN it". And I said ok.....wondering why she was being so defensive about it. So time passed and she was giving me a spectacularly cold shoulder. I never knew why. So I called her one day and she said Hello? I said it was me and her voice dropped like I was a 60 year old child molester........
First off, what gives? I know in my heart I was nothing but nice and honest to this girl. I'm not playing victim, but in case I do sound like one, too bad. Men get hurt too. We're not all monsters.
Secondly, I asked her on the phone if everything was ok she retorted "Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, no". I asked what was wrong and she said "Uhhhhhhhhh lots of things" And told me to not call.
2006-10-21 05:23:02 · 11 answers · asked by axelf57 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just asked this question. I guess you didn't get the answer you wanted.
It is obvious she doesn't want you to contact her for any reason. The reason is not obvious. She may never tell you. Some people are just like that. It may be just her. It may be something you said that she found offensive and doesn't want to deal with. It may have nothing to do with you at all. Maybe she has someone in her life right now that gets very jealous and she doesn't want to start any trouble by you calling. You can pray about it or write her a letter.
We do not know her or your situation so we cannot guess why she is acting that way. We do not know her side of the story. I would suggest you do as she says or it sounds as if she would get a restraining order or something. I am sorry she is acting like this. You may never know. I know you are hurt by her actions. I would be too. You will just have to let it go until she is ready to talk about it, or she may never want to. Keep praying about it. Best wishes.
2006-10-21 05:30:01 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She really sounds like a wishy washy ho ho! Sorry but I am a girl and I can spot em a mile a way sweetie. My theory is: If someone makes me feel that down about myself for no particular reason, then they don't deserve to close to me. You should think the same in this situation. You sound to good for her anyway hon'. One way or another someday it will come out as to why she treated you this way.
2006-10-21 12:38:04 · answer #2 · answered by determined26a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like someone played her in the past. Some guy told her that he would only be a friend and then 'forced' her to do something.
2006-10-21 12:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you wasting your time with this drop kick of a chick. Shes not the only one around SO find someone else b4 she really hurts ya.
2006-10-21 12:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hooking up meant=sex..because it does also mean that besides dating...she might not be the type of girl you want to be around. Sounds to me ...she just wanted to use you..sorry girls have to be jerks too! <3
2006-10-21 12:27:08 · answer #5 · answered by Brittany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds slightly crazy to me so I would stay away from her. If shes not willing to tell you whats wrong then maybe you dont want to know. Stay away before she gets any weirder and find a girl whos worth your time and effort.
2006-10-21 12:25:30 · answer #6 · answered by arae8419 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has issues. Don't waste your time.
She apparently doesn't even care to be friends with you.
Don't call her anymore or she'll no doubt label you a stalker.
2006-10-21 12:28:00 · answer #7 · answered by atomictulip 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pms- chemical imbalance in the brain, due to hormonal changes before having her period. girls are only cool 1week out of the month. the rest, they try to hide/control it, but since ur close to her, u were the target...call in a couple days. bet u she forgot what she did.
2006-10-21 12:29:44 · answer #8 · answered by g-money 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You were too nice !
2006-10-21 12:28:19 · answer #9 · answered by Triathlete88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL girls are weird. Yeah, call her agian, but after you go to her place or meet up with her and ask WTF is going on. She'll have to tell you someday. I don't think she likes you.
2006-10-21 12:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋