For more than a year there's been this one girl who I can't stop thinking about, over the summer she started to see how I feel about her and this year has been more flirty with me than usual. My friends say she totally digs me and my heart says so too but I'm worried that she might say no and ruin our friendship if I asked her out. Homecoming is tonight and I'm contemplating asking her to dance but I have a problem with backing down because of my shyness when it comes to asking girls out. At all other times I'm fine. Any advice???
2006-10-21 05:19:16 · 12 answers · asked by Abyssion 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have to ask her to dance or you will be sorry that you didn't. the worst that could happen is her saying -[no] but that wont ruin your friendship. good luck---YOU CAN DO IT!!!!!!!!
2006-10-21 05:25:12 · answer #1 · answered by ash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million. i might do exactly it (via fact i understand i'm no longer as shy!) yet i wouldnt decide for to intimidate them. 2. no longer something weird and wonderful. in basic terms come right away up, you dont liek them watching you or something, and attempting to chat yet no longer. Maybs attempt to seize the lady in customary circumstances casually eg. while on a run, stumble upon somebody and say howdy, or like, at a party go as much as her, or sit down beside a woman at lunch, help her with some thing, make a humorous sly remark that intrigues her and so on 3 & 4. the subject is self belief, is gorgeous. If a shy guy can nevertheless be useful and not make issues AWKWARD then its genuinely wonderful, i might call him a chiller and that i like those kinda adult males via fact they do no longer look to be boastful and are gentle being themselves. yet definite, with the flexibility to have a solid convo and to experience no longer on part around a shy guy is extremely considerable for it ever to artwork solid luck, there are continually ladies accessible- you think of no shy guy has been effectual and have been given a superb female- a million/2 the inhabitants is shy!! ladies often appreciate their humility!
2016-10-02 12:52:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you are not ready yet for that 'outing'!
Basically, establish a relationship by engaging in conversation on topics of mutual interest. You can then gradually move on and suggest a follow-up discussion over a cup of coffee! You can pick up the threads from there and continue.... but make sure you are gentle throughout!
2006-10-21 05:26:30 · answer #3 · answered by Sami V 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, homecoming is tonight. Don't waste any more time. Just tell yourself this "Quit being such a pu*sy and just ask her already." I usually tell myself these kinds of things and then I eventually get the courage to get up and do what I've been dreading doing or have been too shy to do.
2006-10-21 05:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, it's a bit late at this point. Why don't you go yourself, or with your other single friends, and ask her to dance a couple of times? No big deal. Just a dance or two . . . play it cool. No big drama. See where things go from there.
2006-10-21 05:25:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If homecoming tonight she's probs already got a date...
but just go ask...dont think,
just go up and ask her,
"so who r you goin to the dance with then?" find out wot she says,
and if she says no one, say
"Yea you are going with someone, you're goin with me"And you'll live happily ever after!
2006-10-21 05:22:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH I HATE HOMECOMING! IT WAS HORRIBLE! Skip homecoming and just hang out with the girl somewhere else. Get to know each other. Just not at homecoming.
2006-10-21 05:21:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
asking her out wont necessarily ruin the relationship...the same thing happened w/me and my current bf...we were just friends for about a year and this year he told me he liked me and i told him i just wanted to be friends... but we stayed friends...but now we are going out...so u dont loose a friendship by asking someone out...just ask her and if everyone thinks she l likes u even yourself then go for...if u dont ask then you will never know!
2006-10-21 05:24:12 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it. Worse thing will be a "no". If she lets that ruin your friendship well then...it just wasn't meant to be. Go for it and you might be surprised and relieved!! Good luck!
2006-10-21 05:23:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get really drunk and make an utter fool of yourself… if she likes that you are in and can get away with anything. If you make an utter dick of yourself however it doesn't matter either as everyone knows that if you are that drunk by the morning you won't remember anything so it doesn't count and you can pretend it never happened. Simple. Those are the rules.
2006-10-21 05:24:35 · answer #10 · answered by Mehera 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋