I hung out with a girl in college from a class of mine and she flirted with me. I asked her out, we hooked up a couple of times, and then she said it's a good idea we don't become romantically attached and just be friends. I told her that's fine and that I have no problem with that.
Then, she was like "I MEAN it". And I said ok.....wondering why she was being so defensive about it. So time passed and she was giving me a spectacularly cold shoulder. I never knew why. So I called her one day and she said Hello? I said it was me and her voice dropped like I was a 60 year old child molester........
First off, what gives? I know in my heart I was nothing but nice and honest to this girl. I'm not playing victim, but in case I do sound like one, too bad. Men get hurt too. We're not all monsters.
Secondly, I asked her on the phone if everything was ok she retorted "Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, no". I asked what was wrong and she said "Uhhhhhhhhh lots of things" And told me to not call.
2006-10-21 05:13:28 · 7 answers · asked by axelf57 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She probably has a lot of problems you might not want to get
involved with or she has some deep secrets she doesn't want you to know about. There are more women out there because
if that is how she is "just friends" I wouldn't want to be one.
2006-10-21 05:19:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She obviously has some kind of issues going on. Simply dont call her again. She may have an STD. You never know. Move on!! Find someone who is worth your time!! Good luck!!
2006-10-21 12:16:11 · answer #2 · answered by Naomi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude, she sounds like she's a little into herself. Maybe you want to consider if you gave her the impression that you were totally into her, but to me she probably thinks the world revolves around her. Whatever her deal is.... let it be someone else's problem.
good luck!
2006-10-21 12:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by capt don 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either she liked you, asked her friends to talk to you or your friends and somewhere along the line someone said n you dont like her...
or...she got a boyfriend....
or...your ugly...(no offense)...
or...she got abducted by aliens and swapped bodys....
or....her and her best friend got a bit "close" at a sleepover and she's turned Gay...
But i think the 1st is the most likely...
2006-10-21 12:18:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a real twit. Move on and have a good life.
2006-10-21 12:20:24 · answer #5 · answered by Sexy-n-Hot 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Her loss, your gain. Sounds like she is not a very nice person anyway.
2006-10-21 12:32:54 · answer #6 · answered by Hallon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her problems are not yours --- forget about her and move on
2006-10-21 12:18:23 · answer #7 · answered by trader1867 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋