please help! :)?

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PLEASE HELP! I KNOW ITS LONG :)


this is going to sound kinda pathetic but id like some opinions.
there's this guy, and i had really liked him forever as in 7 years. A LONG LONG time ago like in grade 5 i told him i like him but then he nicely told mee he didnt feel the same way. keep in mind this was a while ago. since then i still love him. We have ONE, count 'em ONE class together, which isnt as much time as i would like to make an impression on him. Occasionally will talk like every 6 classes for like 2 minutes haha embaressing i know. I really do love him, hes single at the moment but who knows what hes up to out of school. People tell me that him and I would be so adorable together we both LOVE humour.

My question is: where do i go from here? If i had more classes/time with him id ask him out but he may of forgotten my personality over the past couple years and if i asked him out he might find it kind of random/weird cause we havent talked for a long amount time forever!

Answer 1

hey ur not alone happened to me before 2 well i would just ask him if i were u if he would like to hangout some time start as friends and as ur relationship grows tell him how u feel but make sure he knows u dont want it to ruin ur friendship with him if u need anymore advice email my friend candy she is great with advice at [e-mail] or u can im her good luck!

Answer 2

I've been there all you have to do is talk to him...the more you talk to someone the more interest they show in you just ask him what hes doing this weekend or that night or if he would be on-line later...don't talk to him on the phone because u wont have much to talk about the Internet serves as a real easy way to talk about random things just be like hey i haven't talked to you in awhile how are you hows your mom just small talk the more you talk the more intimate the conversation will become then if he says yea this weekend i was going to go with sum friends to watever or if hes like i wasnt really gonna do anything some how ffigure out a way to be ther ebut by coincidence like u and ur friends have made the same plans and you just hapen to be there then one night while u r talking online and ur in the middle of agood conversation be liek well im getting sick of typing can i call u or sumthing and then if he says yes call him but he may say no im getting tired i mite just sleep let him it may take a few tries but chances r sooner or later u will talk on the phone then out of all this a relationship may happen....by the way im a guy an dthsi is my advice to anyone boy or girl

Answer 3

Hello Amber, Sweetheart i know what you are going through. Ask him out but when you do it then dont make a big deal out of it just make it simple,light and easy; say something like,,,,,"Hey Eric i was wondering if you wanted to go out sometime this weekend?" If he says yes then say "I can write your number down and call you later so we can talk about it." And if he says "No i will give you a hollar." Then it is okay,,,you will be giving him your phone number. And if he calls with-in a week (give him some time-do not want to rush) then he is interested. Good Luck.

Answer 4

maybe afterskool, ask him if he wants to hang out wif you.make plans before you ask him.if he says yes then maybe go to the movies..its a great place to kill time and have fun.2 choices, watch a scary movie so you can cuddle up with him during the scary parts. or a funny movie cuz you guys love humor.try to make plans with him frequently..but not EVERYDAY.maybe once a week. he'll start to talk to you more often and become closer.you can handle it on your own after that=]GOOD LUCK

Answer 5

In my opinion, just call him up and tell him you had a question on homework, and you were just wondering if him and you can meet somewhere and discuss it. It will give you time to talk to him, and let him see who you really are. before he tells you the answer, say " oh i get it its ____" and remember to thank him. You would be surprised at how effective that can be! Good Luck!

Answer 6

Well you need to make youself more available to him and try to speak to him more. He isn't going to seek you out that is not a guy thing to do. If you believe in God you should pray about this situation and God will give you the answer and it will work out. But definetly try more communication with him and then you can tell what his temperment is with you.

Answer 7

Well..that is a toughy...before you ever ask him out to do something..you should speak up more..so he gets to know you again...talk to him..as him how is days is...maybe if theres a new movie...ask him if he would want to go with you as a friend..and if it turns out good..he may or may not would want to move further as in a relationship (meaning..he prob would wanna be just friends) but hey you gotta take a chance to figure that one out..GOod Luck Sweetie <33

Answer 8

ask him for his phone number. then when you build up nerve, ask him to go on a date. i wouldnt keep putting it off. other girls may have their eyes on him, too. if you don't take the chance while you have it, you may not get the chance. the worst mistake wouldn't be asking him out, it would be NOT asking him out. do it!

Answer 9

at the beginning of class as you are handing your phone number to him --say-- if your ever interested ---then go sit down. if he doesn't call within 2 weeks then you must GET OVER HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! good luck

Answer 10

I say give him your phone number and see if he will call you is probbly the best thing.