I recently found text messages from a girl he works with on his phone saying that she loves him and that she knows he loves her too and stuff like that. I got very angry and didn't let my boyfriend get a word in. I was puttin two ans two together because sometimes he wouldnt even come home and if he did come home it wasn't untill 6 in the morning. Was I wrong to yell at him? Did I over react? and do you think that there might have been anything going on between them? Or do you think im just being paranoid?
2006-10-21 04:58:54 · 11 answers · asked by cherri 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello, You really need to know for sure that he's seeing (hooking up?) with this girl before you go off on him. Sounds like he is though...because it's so easy to get romantic with a co-worker because they are around all the time. IF he's in love with her then he has messed up the relationship he had with you...and it is up to you to decide what to do next...make him choose you or her-make him leave- or you leave- or what other decision is there? If you make his life a living hell, then that will make the "other girl" look like a better deal...so everything hinges on knowing the truth about the "other girl"....hope everything works out for you ok?...bye
2006-10-21 05:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How the hell would the relationship survive if YOU yelled at him and "put two and two together" and not let him get a word in?
Jeez, maybe some friends of his were pulling a prank on him, you ever thought about that?
You need better communications skills. You should've had a real conversation with him.
2006-10-21 12:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not over reacting or being paranoid, you have a right to know the truth, no body likes to be taken for a ride, stick to your guns girl, and let him have it
2006-10-21 12:03:14 · answer #3 · answered by virgodoll 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is an old saying, "Just because you are paranoid, doesn't mean people aren't out to get you." You must have suspected something or you wouldn't have looked through his text messages. You caught him cheating and he will do it again. Dump him now and don't look back.
2006-10-21 12:02:53 · answer #4 · answered by tko43078 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YES, but don't let that get you down, accept things and do your best to move on. You need to be happy! No one deserves to be disrespected, what goes around comes around
2006-10-21 12:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by lesa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres definetly something going on
2006-10-21 12:04:13 · answer #6 · answered by painter18436 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run, ran fast and far. This one is obviously a LOSER, I mean what if he came home from her, to you and "shared" a sickness. YUCK!
Theres far better ment in the world.Once they cheat, they never stop
2006-10-21 12:03:34 · answer #7 · answered by Joyce L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He got her pregnant & they'll be married in one month (before she shows).
You should go sleep with the next guy you see & that will show him!
2006-10-21 12:12:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE'S CHEATING ON YOU. SPEND A $100BUCKS ON A PRIVATE EYE AND STOP WONDERING AND FIND OUT FOR SURE. HE'S CHEATING ON YOU. HE DON'T DESERVE A SWEETIE LIKE YOU.
2006-10-21 14:41:02 · answer #9 · answered by cob_89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop the cheating before it starts and dump him if it already has
2006-10-21 12:03:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋