I met this guy through Yahoo Personals and he seemed to be the man of my dreams. I met his family, introduced him to my friends and thought everything would be fine. Everything was ok up to 2 weeks ago, and then he became very distant. He is not bubbly anymore, and he says that's the way he is, because he feels comfortable with me. He didn't call me yesterday at all, and when I called him, he said he was way too busy at work. Is he lying to me?
Today is Sweetest Day and he didn't call me yet.
I need your help.
Thanks!
2006-10-21 04:49:27 · 14 answers · asked by VT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let him miss you...dont call him...dont want to sound like some arrogrant fool but dont stress over it.. if he is for you then he'll come back to his normal self... be understanding and its also a good thing that he is being like that this early and making your life a mess later. give him and yourself space to rediscover the things that have in common with. do something u havent done so that when he's back you have something new to talk about and maybe experience together
2006-10-21 04:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by apple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RELAX, if he is at work than he probably is to busy, tht is what work is for and as far as him not being bubbly or distant maybe its you and not him or maybe he has things that you dont know yet and he is just dealing with them. Its only been two weks together you dont even know what each of you like on your sandwiches. when you get there and its still bad then deal with it but if you dont enjoy him or let it be about him to than he will be distant.. I would be
2006-10-21 04:55:23 · answer #2 · answered by jennifer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been dating only two weeks and you expect him to be acting like a longtime boyfriend? Maybe he's noticing that you're high maintenance and is working on getting away from you.
2006-10-21 04:53:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a book on the market called He's Just Not Into You. Its very helpful. I read it and I am sure glad I did.
2006-10-21 04:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by Carol W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta give him some space, it seems like you're trying to smother him. So what if he didn't call you ONE day? Why does a guy have to call you every day?
Maybe he lost interest because you're too clingy, guys generally don't like clingy chicks.
2006-10-21 04:53:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the TRUE man is arising, He may still like you but the question is there future long relationship or did that, done her and on to the next...
May he show his true self SOON so you can get on with your life...
Good Luck!
2006-10-21 04:54:27 · answer #6 · answered by ***BEEN THERE, DONE THAT!!!*** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like a very good way to start a relationship, does it? Follow your heart.
2006-10-21 04:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by tko43078 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the guy a break!
Maybe he's just going through something.
Don't over-analyze it.
Just let it be...
2006-10-21 04:54:05 · answer #8 · answered by Luv Thy Neighbour! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should sit down and talk to him about it and say like are you ready for a relationship or something like that or ask him whats wrong or something.. O.k, if you have any problems e-mail me.
2006-10-21 04:54:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang him out to dry and see what he dose if he wants u he will make a move
2006-10-21 04:51:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋