Anyone here ever been relieved to leave someone? Ever have someone lie to you so much, and stress you out so bad, that you were looking forward to a swift end? How about someone eing with someone who thrives off of arguing, and stress? Ever been with that type of person? Describe your experience, and how you felt afterwards!
2006-10-21 04:48:39 · 9 answers · asked by smartestassofthemall 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's hard to fix what's determined to be broken...
And of course, the way I feel is left unspoken.
It's hard to please someone who is always dissatisfied...
And hard to swallow the fact that, once again, you've lied.
The truth is something you will never ever see...
An honest person is something you will never ever be.
Always looking for the quickest way out, any excuse is fine...
Searching for any reason to cross that fine thin line.
Your outlook breeds the biggest doubts that continue to infest my mind.
Along with contradicting stories that continue to keep me blind.
Now all I want is to get away from it all...
Before I take the fall...
2006-10-21 04:49:56 · update #1
I doubt there was ever any good intent on your part...
Just another shadow hell bent on tearing me apart.
When you're mad, the true colors really do show...
The plain ol' truth is something you will never know!
You have your own reasons for keeping me here...
They're obvious, and your intent is crystal clear.
I think of you and it makes me sick...
Wading through your bullshit, and believe me, it's thick.
I'm counting down the days until I can smile again...
And the journey with you will come to it's end.
A few weeks away from cutting the ties...
And a welcome end from your bullshit and lies!
Thank God.
2006-10-21 04:50:15 · update #2
I'm a GUY!!! I'm leaving a woman. LOL
2006-10-21 04:56:14 · update #3
I had a relationship that turned me into a completely different person - in a negative way. I went out with this guy for almost a year and after a few months already the fights that we had turned into humiliations from his side. Over time it was getting worse and worse, and he made me feel like I am stupid, have a bad taste in style and my friends are all boring and childish. When we had discussions he would never give in and always needed to be the "winner" and make me feel that I was wrong. All the time I was wishing that someone would record our discussions, so that I could get another opinion. Several times he made me so aggressive that I started to hit my own head, cause I couldn't stand it anymore. When we finally broke up, cause he had just not called for weeks, I felt relief and nothing but relief. Unfortuantely, this relationship left its traces and left me as a timid person with low self-esteem, and in my current relationship I already destroyed some trust, because I expect my new boyfriend to become like the other one...Anyway, yes it is completely normal and healthy to feel relieved after a break-up. And isn't it a lot better than feeling blue for months?
2006-10-21 05:01:37 · answer #1 · answered by Wild Cherry 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have already read what you write. Nice work. You sound like in pain at this moment, or maybe it is just your novel.
About your question, yes i've been relieved to leave someone ... but not physical .. on my mind. You feel FREE.
But don't feel anger, be happy. Make a good wish for that person ... and just let it go from your memories .. that is all about. When we finally decide to close the door, there is when the magic comes and another or many other doors open. Turn on the page and start a new one. Don't think of the past, don't think of the future .. just think about now. Enjoy what you have NOW, and all things you can do Now.
Don't hurt anybody .. no matter if you got hurt from someone. It will bring you more anger to your heart.
PEACE amigo mio.
2006-10-21 05:43:05 · answer #2 · answered by NA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lying constantly and trying to control everything. I broke that off just by disappearing and it felt great, almost to the point of revenge without even trying to find out their reaction because I really didn't care or want to know since my feeling felt so good
2006-10-21 04:52:01 · answer #3 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
break up can be happen due to circumstances like misunderstandings, other obstacles and unforeseen situations. so break up can lead to heart burn. or so.
relieved is the sense of relief from the relationship.
faraway from the nagging wife,
diverse in case of cheating and so on.
2006-10-21 04:58:01 · answer #4 · answered by prince47 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i totally know how u feel and its so right u dumped him it was the right thing 2 do but i do feel sorry 4 u 4 not having a bf
2006-10-21 04:53:28 · answer #5 · answered by ElizaG 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea i wanted out and now i'm going out my mind!!!!unless he was a total jerk and beat you i'm sure you had a good reason to leave.i know i need to get over this one but we have some kind of bond maybe you can help me
2006-10-21 04:56:03 · answer #6 · answered by mslewis1972 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off get a life then find someone who can put up with u good luck by the way
2006-10-21 04:53:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You have summed it up pretty well. I think you have your own answers. Time will tell if you have truly learned your lesson though.
2006-10-21 04:52:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes!!!!!
2006-10-21 04:55:15 · answer #9 · answered by dancing_diva 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋