She has been up there about 4 months but her boy-friend just bought her a brand new townhouse. She even said it's nice. I have son with her and she has three kids with him. I know she's happy financialy but she's not in love with him. But she is stable. She doesn't have any financial worries. If I love her should I just let her live up there. She wants to come down here but I can't provide for her the way he can. I can take care of a family but I can't buy her a nice house. Just something I have been pondering.
2006-10-21 03:33:00 · 6 answers · asked by explicitcure2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Okay we have been talking for almost a month now and we want to reconcile. I just don't know if I should take her from something stable and nice like she has it and bring her down here. I can't provide financialy like he can. But she's in love with me. It would also involve me raising three children that arent mine and one that is. I am fine with that. I am asking if you love somone enough and you know they are happy financialy but not emotionaly with somone should u just leave it alone or should I bring her down here where she doesn't have a job and its unstable.
2006-10-21 04:30:18 · update #1
Okay red flags are going up all over the place. Your wife has a boyfriend? That by itself is your answer. No, leave her alone, until she decides to get out of the financial comfortable relationship. Do not pursue a marriage with a wife who dates!!! Very simple really.
2006-10-21 03:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she loved you then she would be willing to leave all material possesions behind. And yes it is that simple. You should ask yourself some questions, why does your wife have a boyfriend? Why does your wife have three kids with this boyfriend? Time to let her go my friend. Plenty of fish in the sea.
2006-10-21 03:37:00 · answer #2 · answered by James R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 21:06:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-10-21 03:43:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you should not move her even if she does not love him. this is a decision that she made all on her own. she also has a family with this guy. you need to only be concerned with your son, not her love life.
2006-10-21 04:24:54 · answer #5 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
left over are great if its food its time to move on
how can you trust her again if she left you once and she leave him what r u thinking
2006-10-22 17:27:44 · answer #6 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋