i have been with my boyfriend 2 years and ofcourse like any other couple we play with each other.but now its come to the point that we might end up in bed making love.what am scared of is that if we have sex,can it change our relationship?can we become adicted to sex after that 1 time?can the relationship change into just being sex?please help i would really like to no.
2006-10-21 03:22:54 · 11 answers · asked by turtle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, i think so but on the other hand, i dont think so too. it really depends on your guy. sometimes when a guy goes on bed with the girl, he'll leave her coz all the time, he didnt get what he wants and finally when he get whole of you, he's tired and wants to try something different. understand your guy better 1st. if your guy really likes you, sex can bring your r/s to a higher level and bonding even closer. thats a gd news 4you then!
2006-10-21 03:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course sex can change things, it can bring you to closer together or maybe he will want it more then you or the other way around which can cause fights. I don't know how old you are, but you two have been together for a long time, so I'd assume at this point he is not just using you for sex and hopefully won't just leave after getting some. If you are both ready then I see no problem for not doing it. Just be sure to use condoms, because a baby will DEFINITLY change your relationship.
2006-10-21 03:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by strtat2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you and your b/f are, and it's important. Is he pushing you to do this? Then, put on the brakes and think long and hard. Either way, if you have any questions at all, you're not ready. You can be assured that having intercourse will definitely change your relationship, not necessarily for the better. If you regret it, you can't get your virginity back. It's normal to be nervous; but your first time should be with love and no doubts at all.
2006-10-21 04:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by Joy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've been together for 2 YEARS!! Have some sex and enjoy it! I mean, so what if you have sex every time you see each other? It's a means of stress relief and a great way to enjoy each other. That doesn't mean that's all you do is have sex, but he's obviously NOT with you for the sex cause he's gone 2 years without it. Treat each other to a little pleasure!
2006-10-21 03:29:28 · answer #4 · answered by harry_potter_kid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, congratulations on making it two years without having sex! That shows that you are BOTH responsible.
To answer your question, yes, sex changes everything. It's entirely possible that it could taint your relationship more than it would help it.
If I were you, I'd just wait until you marry him, IF you marry him. That way, it'll be more special for both of you, and you don't have to worry about it ruining your relationship.
I wish I'd waited.
2006-10-21 03:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by The_Cricket: Thinking Pink! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could. But, if you both really feel that it is time in your relationship to go that further step, then it is probably time. You are only a virgin once...but after that point, and you would not be the only lady out there, experiences can change.
2006-10-21 03:26:00 · answer #6 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcoarse it will change. Think it over really well before you do it. If it is what you want go for it.
2006-10-21 03:34:32 · answer #7 · answered by Big Daddy of the RGV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maximum replace....some dont and such as you reported, it relies upon on the guy via fact each physique is diverse i assume you are able to say its the roll of the cube in each undertaking like that
2016-10-02 12:50:27 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? this question indicates to me that you are not ready for this. of course it changes the relationship.
2006-10-21 03:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by David B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes after the first time , he will want it all the time,, you will fight because he will last about 2 minutes and you will not orgasm,
2006-10-21 03:24:14 · answer #10 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋