the first time he was messing with a friend online and the second time i saw a pic of him and another girl kissing on his computer....and everytime his defense was that "we were fighting so i wanted to make sure that i wanted to be with u coze i wasnt happy"
2006-10-21 03:06:18 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
What did you say about a WEDDING?
2006-10-21 03:35:22 · answer #1 · answered by treday25 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the most sorry excuse I have ever heard. There is no excuse!!!! Leave him...NOW! All he will do is cause you stress and greif. It is better that you be a little heart-broken now, rather than continuing to put yourself through so much pain. Love and respect yourself! Your better than that @ss!!! There ARE good guys out there...I promise! You just have to go through a few crappy ones to find some good ones. BE STRONG! LEAVE HIM! You WILL get over him, just don't give in. HE will never change! The longer you stay with him, the more YOU look like a fool and he's probably laughing about it with the other girls he's fooling around with!
2006-10-21 03:11:43 · answer #2 · answered by circa 1980 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's done it more than once, with more than one person, there is no excuse for it.
I cheated on my ex because I was stupid and selfish. I have never cheated on my husband, nor do I ever plan to.
Once a cheater, always a cheater. If they do it once, with one person, it could be considered an accident IF they accept the blame for it.
It sounds to me as though he's trying to blame YOU. Leave him. Find someone better.
2006-10-21 03:14:56 · answer #3 · answered by The_Cricket: Thinking Pink! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing a pschological blame game on u. Men in general need 3 thing from women:
Bang him
Let him drink beer
Leave him alone
in your case leave him. I can give u a shoulder to cry until tears dry up. U deserve better i guess.
2006-10-21 03:21:03 · answer #4 · answered by Dickson L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he uses an excuse of you two fighting everytime he cheats don't you think he's going to carry on doing this until you actually realise it's not that you fighting it's because he feels he isn't satified with just 1 person, some men think it's okay for them to do this but it's not and you should tell him that your not happy about him cheating on you and that he either does something about it or leaves from your life altogether... if he is cheating on you... do you think you can handle this everytime you fight.... open your eyes and look around he's trying to play you for a fool... don't allow him to do this to you.....
2006-10-21 03:18:53 · answer #5 · answered by kyyk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be 50 ways to leave your lover - just walk out the door, make a new plan ,save your own life! I assume you're young, treasure your freedom darling, it's not worth wasting time with someone like this. You happy with him? Don't sound like it!
2006-10-21 12:22:30 · answer #6 · answered by muddled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry you're in that situation, but it doesn't seem like your bf is happy with you if he's going around behind your back. You should focus on yourself and not left him bring you down and lower your self-esteem. You'll just continue being unhappy, sad and disappointed with insecurity. You should be with someone who loves you for who you are.
2006-10-21 05:41:32 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most people's done but my answer, but like someone said. Once a cheater always a cheater. and Once they know you'll keep taking him back, He'll think he's a winner with you forever..
Tell him he can be the player but your not a game....
DUMP HIM... I so would.. Good luck 2 you..
2006-10-21 05:25:23 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_angel_420_4002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offering lame excuses for infidelity instead of trying to work out the issue at hand? Sounds reasonable. Well, no it doesn't. If he can do this to you now, whats going to heppen next, and if you ever get married. Food for thought.
2006-10-21 03:11:59 · answer #9 · answered by roman_ninja 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always a liar and always a cheat! He doesn't need to have these pics in his heart he should know if he wants you!!! Dump him now before he breaks your heart some more.
Theres plenty more hunks in the sea!!
2006-10-21 22:39:25 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get rid of him if that person does not want you you get out there and find a person that worships the ground you walk on you do not put up with being 2nd not for anyone
2006-10-21 03:50:29 · answer #11 · answered by nancy_habershon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋