Its been 27 days since she claim that we aint together no more, days past im actually filling worse, i am felling so krazy bout this girl, i try everything such as bying her flowers,cards, i wrote her later one after another, I call her from work, at home just to see how her day goes by, I cried almost every day of talking to her, i got on my knees must of the time, i clean her house, i cook for her i talked to her, i have ,my friends talking to her , i have my familly talking to her, i even have her own familly talk to her, i have her best friend talk to her, I dont know what else to do, to make her understand that i am a change man , she even claim that im a change man,i even do her laundry, i cant sleep cuz im so hurt,i cant eat, i stop everything else that i used to do, the only thing that she tells me is that i love you but im not gone take another chance cuz it so hard to beleive that youl be that same guy forever. and it wasnt like i was cotroling her, really please poeple hlp
2006-10-21 03:01:25 · 11 answers · asked by bazin b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you need to lay off for a while-you may be a little too clingy for her and if you leave her alone then she might realize that she needs you.
2006-10-21 03:12:47 · answer #1 · answered by ღ|l°Coltrane°l|ღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I agree with Anna W. too. It's hard to say why she is not responding. If you dated while you were in your teens, well a lot changes. What you thought you admired you might not now. Also, you have watched each other grow up. I would try to think about how she viewed you when you were together and how she responded to you. This will give you lots of clues to your question. If she quit talking to you for example, she might think it isn't worth talking because it never made a difference, that's just one example. She also might be "paying you back" by knowing you want her back soooo badly. Either way, from what you said, I would back off a bit. Even if it's 3 days. My best to you, I know how much heartache hurts. Diana
2006-10-21 03:15:01 · answer #2 · answered by Red! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were controlling her I believe, and she does not want that to happen! your in her face all the time! move back and give her some room, only then will you get a response! Even then it might not be favourable! You are showing her what a man should not be like, weak! Take control of your life and not control of hers! The quickest way to get an ex back, is to date someone else! Try it! It will do your ego good and it might turn your life around!!!!
2006-10-21 03:18:31 · answer #3 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so she did not like the person that you were, so now you claim to have changed, its only been a month. i don't blame her for not being ready to believe you. and you having all these people talking to her, sounds like something a teenager would be doing. stop having people trying to convince her that you have changed. another thing you are basically saying that you have changed for her, what about for you?? stop trying so hard to prove to her that you are a different person. and all this crap that you do her dishes and her laundry. come on! maybe you could continue to make the changes that you need to make without kissing her butt to do it. play hard to get!! if you were going to such extreme for me to prove that your a new man i would not believe it either. because you are trying to hard.
2006-10-21 03:13:47 · answer #4 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa whoa bro. You are doing a little too much. So are sound ing a little too clingy. Just chill and think about this. Would yo want someone to smother you like you are smothering her? Just give her some room to think and she might come around. Women tend to like strong men, but you are sounding like a punk man. If it's been a month, just let it go. If she wants to come back to you she will. But let her come back when she's ready. You can't force her with friends and family. That only makes it worse. get a hobby and try to occupy your time. you will probably meet someone else.
2006-10-21 03:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
welll 1st off, give her her space & write her a little note stating that you'll always be there for her. and second off, it depends on what you did in the first place. If it's that bad, then you need to prove to her with time that you actually are a changed man, and possibly she will go back with you. Good luck
2006-10-21 03:08:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dude!
first: you seem a really sweet guy to do all this stuff for her!
second: she is proberbly going to find it annoing as your not giving her any space!
third: you dont want her to think yourr desperate!
and last of all:
You CAN do loads better then that girl. you will find somewon who is worth every single tear o yours. think about it... why dose then one who you "love" make you cry? she isnt worth you! there will be many other girls out there who would love a guy like you!!
just go and find somewon else sweetie!
best of luck [ im sorry if i sound mean but its the truth!]
2006-10-21 03:08:11 · answer #7 · answered by XxXToMuchToThinkAboutXxX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probablt thinks its too good to be true. You've obviously done something to upset her and/or betray her trust.
You might be suffocating her & being too full on. Try backing off a bit, give her some time to think & breathe & she'll be more likely to respond to you.
2006-10-21 03:07:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the month test. Go one month with out her. Don't talk to/about her for a month. It'll work out. Remember "If you love somthing, set it free. If it comes back to you it was meant to be. I f not, it never was."
2006-10-21 03:08:26 · answer #9 · answered by Big Daddy of the RGV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something very special for her (do not do anything above)
2006-10-21 03:05:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋