My bf and I went to his ex-boyfriend's birthday. He sat next to his ex, and "forget" to introduce me. I felt ignored. When asked, my bf said, "I didn't wanna hurt his feelings. He still loves me!"
I was really pissed off. Anyone please tell me what's he thinking and how should I handle this matter!
2006-10-21 02:51:42 · 7 answers · asked by John W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This was a choice he made between his ex's feelings and yours. You were put on the back burner in this situation, and that wasn't fair to you. Tell him that you are the one who is in his life now, not his ex, and you should be the one to come FIRST! If he cannot respect you anymore than that, then what do you need him for? You don't. In a relationship, your partner comes first and fore-most if it an honest and true relationship. Let him know that you do not appreciate being put on the back burner, you deserve better, and you will not stand for it.
2006-10-21 03:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH what a tangled information superhighway we weave, as quickly as we weave a information superhighway to lie to.... replaced into it ok for him to play around with different females once you have been with him? If no longer, then why in the international are you letting him be a liar and a cheat now? it isn't any thank you to income appreciate, it is for particular - even from him. in case you opt for to truly make a scene, and create a lot of undesirable emotions, go forward and take place to his party. must be he will make a fool of you and or him, yet perhaps it's time absolutely everyone seems to be acquainted with the actuality besides, top?
2016-10-02 12:49:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so another words it was ok to hurt your feelings?? i think that there is more to it than that. i think your bf may still have feelings for his x. if it were me i would not have just sat there. i would have went over and introduced myself. and joined the conversation. there would have been nothing wrong with that.
2006-10-21 02:56:16 · answer #3 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he wanted to talk to him and see how he has been doing. I talk to my friends alot and some of them are my exes.
2006-10-21 02:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by Mandee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he still loves him too!!!! ditch the dawg
2006-10-21 03:00:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hummm...sounds like he's just having a gay old time...
2006-10-21 02:55:33 · answer #6 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
duh he probably still has feelings for his ex and want you to see his feelings for his ex
2006-10-21 03:06:23 · answer #7 · answered by g0tta love me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋