My boyfriend of 3 months has been with ALOT of girls in the past. He's had one night stands, multiple sex partners at one time, and friends with benifits.He told me that I'm different than those girls, and I'm what he was always looking for. This has given me some major insecurities, cause how can someone go from that, to being faithful to one girl? I need some insight.
2006-10-21 02:47:02 · 12 answers · asked by Miss NancyGirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sex is a physical need for everyone, regardless of whether they're emotionally involved with anyone or not. And men have a harder time ignoring that drive than women do. Him having sex with random people is a bit promiscuous, but you haven't said whether he has a history of cheating or not. If these one night stands and sexual adventures where done while he was single and unattached.... then it shouldn't be an issue in your relationship. His past is past, and he can't change it. The fact that he talks so openly with you about it should tell you that he's changed and that your special. If he had any desire to continue living that way,.... he wouldn't tell you about it.
2006-10-21 02:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by just_me3575 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very unlikely that he will be faithful. You have red flags all over on this issue hun. This is something you will have to feel to know if he is being true or not....but, unfortunately it seems as if it will only be a matter of time before he is unfaithful. With him wanting this much variety in females, it is likely he will begin to look for more even with you.
2006-10-21 02:52:45 · answer #2 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 1st thing to ask, how long was he with the other girls, if it wasnt that long and yall have made it 3 months so far not saying 3 months is a long time or anything, he could really mean what he says, however time may be the only way to know for sure, but i allways say. silence everything around you and listen to your heart
2006-10-21 02:51:36 · answer #3 · answered by onlymetx28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there once ..i've been with him for 4months ..His reputation is really...even worse than your bf..And he told me lot lot of good stuff..I'm the one he was looking for..He's gonna start a new page with me ..All those girls were trash ..I'm the exception ..i'm different
But i felt something is wrong ..It's too much perfect..
I started digging..following him..Being very careful and attentive ..
Checking his phone..I even jumped into his house to c if e's really sick as he said or somewhere else ..
And finally i cought him red handed..
So honey watch out ..
2006-10-21 03:02:03 · answer #4 · answered by ^^ANGEL^^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've got yourself a real winner for a boyfriend. Prepare to be cheated on within a few weeks. Sh!t, I'd cheat on you myself, you prude!
2006-10-21 02:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by Reality 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he says the same thing to all of his girls. Do not believe that!
2006-10-21 02:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ew!
Has he been tested for diseases???
What attracted you to this person???
Knowing what you know, how do you know he's still not with A LOT of girls?
Pew!
2006-10-21 02:51:08 · answer #7 · answered by ltsnthf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just maybe he has found a special girl he has been searching for?
2006-10-21 02:53:23 · answer #8 · answered by steven b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes just saying that to get in your pants he don't love you he probably says that to all of the girls he has been with.
2006-10-21 02:52:36 · answer #9 · answered by Christian c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they can't...but all men are the same...either live with his past or move on to some other's guys issues.....
2006-10-21 02:49:31 · answer #10 · answered by Judy the Wench 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋