Why is it so hard for me to be with one girl at a time?

Question

I've cheated on all my girlfriends except one. Isn't that just human nature, afterall?

Answer 1

because you are a dog that lacks self-discipline.

Human nature, indeed. What makes you think you qualify as human?

Answer 2

Nature......I dunno. I saw on the discovery channel (And this is funny because I've never thought about this) that this scientist stated that humans are pretty much the only mammal in the world that mates for life (Or has the concept of mating for life). THATS ODD!!

It all depends on if you think that this is irregular behavior or not. Why do you do it? "I dont know" isnt a good enough answer. You have to realize WHY you do it. The reason may satisfy you, or it may help you see that you need to make some serious changes within yourself.

But you must think about this one thing, you are socially responsible for these relationships that you have with these women. You cannot go out there, tell them that you love them, then cheat on them. Be upfront with them about who you are so there are no hurt feelings because if you dont, you will have a part in their heartache and pain.

You have a lot to think about dude...............

Answer 3

no this is what you do well you have to stick with the best one and dump the rest but make sure you dump them in a nice way and then if the girl you pick is just not the wright one for you do not i mean do not go up to one of your old girl friends an say i want to be your boyfriend because you were the one that dumped her and then no girls will want to date you so you have to think about who is really the right girl and i none of them are do not date any of them cause if you do that will make you misserable but try not to be the guy with 10 girlfriends at once and try not to be the one always breaking up with girls

Answer 4

Human nature?---not even close. Sounds to me you want to be a bachelor instead of having an actual relationship. Wait until you grow up a little more and get the wild streak out of your behind. You want variety, and with that, you cannot have an honest relatioinship with anyone, including yourself.

Answer 5

Your going to blame your bad behavior on human nature? Typical. If you can't be faithful to a girlfriend, then don't have one. If your cheating involves sex, then you need to be extra careful not to pass diseases around. Always, always use a condom.

Answer 6

Who cares!? I say as long as you wrap it up....rock out with your c@ck out and hang out with your wang out....and do a little boom boom with the brides maides...in all seriousness, people make the mistake of thinking we're some super species...we are lik all the rest of the animal kingdom...in every species the male mates with as many females of the species as possible...I'm not a player but i do think that we are like everyother species except along the way we started acting on emotion rather than instinct.

Answer 7

You have a serious problem, it is not right to cheat. Maybe its hard for you because you feel needy or longing. You girlfriend might not be giving you what you want. If thats the case ask yourself 'Should i really be with this girl?'

Answer 8

It's animal behavior. What makes a human different to an animal is morals and values. It's real easy to be an animal, but takes a strong will to be a man. You have power over your choices, start making the right ones.

Answer 9

No, it's called being selfish and a player. You need to grow up. One day your going to fall for someone hard and when you do karma is going to bit you on your butt and your going to fell exactly what you did to all those poor girls!

Answer 10

Haven't we all cheated on our girlfriends at one time or another.