should i still date her after she lied 2 me
2006-10-21 02:06:20 · 30 answers · asked by Okiemute A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends what she lied to you about.
But if you hate her for it, why would you even consider being with someone you hate?
2006-10-21 02:09:59 · answer #1 · answered by His Best Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This all really depends on what the lie is, I say that I don't lie, that's really not true, i would lie to help my kids out and i would lie to help my family out, but at the age i am now i would not lie about something that is really serious, if you are both young then i can see why, kids just lie for the sake of it anyway. But no matter if she has lied about something that is very serious then I would have to think very hard if I would be able to trust her again. But above all you do need to tell her how strongly you feel about this. Good luck xx
2006-10-21 09:18:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not if you hate her. The relationship will never be the same. You'll take her back, and she'll be around you all the time. Seeing her won't bring back fond memories of the relationship, only the bad memories of her cheating. Give yourself some time to get over that. After you've gotten over it, if you feel like you can date her again, then do so. But honestly, you will have probably moved on by then anyway.
2006-10-21 09:13:54 · answer #3 · answered by dorky_goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi it all depends on what she lied about, if you hate her for it then obviously you dont want to have a relationship with her. But the thing is will she lie to you again if you do date her again. If it is over something petty then it isnt worth arguing about and life is to short for petty arguments. But if she cheated on you or something then i would just stay away from her, bacause once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-10-21 09:33:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the magnitude of her lie and whether you still feel for her. If deep down you do want to get back with her, you should regardless what anyone else says. Lies do occur in relationships and it is practically impossible to see a relationship without lies.
2006-10-21 09:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by G K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is so very important in a relationship of any type, friends, family, romantic, work, why people feel a need to lie I will never understand. Can you get past her telling you a lie, can you trust her to be honest here on? Talk to her and see if you can continue the relationship and be able to trust her to be honest, if not, say goodbye.
2006-10-21 09:11:38 · answer #6 · answered by up2sumpthun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't said what she lied about but if you hate her for it then no, I don't think you should still date her, if she's begging then she's realised what she's lost & she'll learn from her mistake & not do the same to the next fella she ends up with!
2006-10-21 09:11:46 · answer #7 · answered by C Greene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what kind of lie it was, if she said she was going for an early night and ended up having a drink in the house with friends then yeah date her, but if it was something like no i dont want to get marriedthen u found out she was married to someone else then dump her
2006-10-21 09:09:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all do mistakes..but forgivness depends on the efforts we do ,to make someone forgives us..If she's really regreting what she did..and showing you that really care about you..why not give her a second chance..!!
And if you still feel uncomfortable and "hate her"..then tell her that you can't get over what you did ..but you have to give it a shot first ..try then ..judge..
2006-10-21 09:25:04 · answer #9 · answered by ^^ANGEL^^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(Smokey Robinson's Ooh Baby Baby) U make mistakes too. U can't say u never lied to her too even the littlest bent truth. So ur answer depends... r u willing to work with yor communication abilities with this girl or is your relationship with her solely based by points and a scoreboard (# of things u each done wrong\ # of things u each done right) ?.... u decide.. relationships r made of hard work and effort,.... right? .[....hhhmmmmm.....?]
2006-10-21 09:16:32 · answer #10 · answered by thiklikmeyow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi fella. you dont state what see has lied about. at this point in time. only you do. follow your heart fella. i'm guessing that may be she has been with some1 else. and just forgot to mention to you. like they do. if this is the case. if you can still stay with her and carry on as normal with out keep draging it up. then yes stay with her. but i could not. i would leave. do what you think is best. good luck fella.
2006-10-21 09:14:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋