yea my boyfriend asked me to marry him and i told hm yes cause i really love him but i don't know if it was i wise desicion or not. we have been together for about 5 months now and just a week ago he asked me when we were in him room laying on his bed!!!!!!!
2006-10-21 01:38:49 · 18 answers · asked by samantha e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is a question i would ask your parents as well. see what their reaction is. but....16 is very young, especially after only being together 5 months. ask around women who are married how long they were with thier partners for before he popped the question. i bet most will say at least 2 years. if you are planning to spend the rest of your life together........then wait till you are both of age to marry. finish high school and college. when you think about it, a life time........since you both are so young.....which would be about 60-70 years together, compared to waiting 5-6 years before planning a wedding is not much. and he should understand. if he doesn't, then ask him why. tell him if he really loved you then he would respect your decision and wait for both of your benifits.
2006-10-21 01:45:03 · answer #1 · answered by Jody SweetG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married when I was 16 and divorced by the time I was 18. It was the biggest mistake I ever made. I wish I would have waited to make such a big desicion. If you truely do love each other than you can wait until both of you are stable and can take care of each other. Hope this helps.
2006-10-21 08:59:59 · answer #2 · answered by sillysammi2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wise????? No!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, What are you going to live on? Love? How much food will that buy. Rent, how aboput payiong that with a few kisses.
Marriage is very serious, it's not a game or something you can do then change your mind when you get tired of it, especially if you have kids. You've been with this guy for 5 months and you have decided you want to spend the rest of your life with him?
2006-10-21 08:46:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, what about your future and dream. you must have something in mind when you grow up; a career perhaps. once, you're married, it's really hard to pursue your dream. trust me, been there. you want to make a good living by working @ job that you like to do and able to support yourself without anyone else's help. you can tell him yes, but not until both of you are both financially stable. there are so many things you want to do right now and marriage will just get in the way.
2006-10-21 09:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i don;t think it is a wise decision because you are wayyyy 2 young to get married How do you no its rel yet?I thought I was ready to get married to my boyfriend at 16 after 10mths but it didn't work out so rethink your decision and think about what you will be losing and gaining by getting married.
2006-10-21 09:12:40 · answer #5 · answered by csmndaj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a little to soon! If your relationship leads to marriage in the future, great, but at 16 you are no where near ready for the stresses and strains of marriage. Finish school, be a teenager, decide where you want your life to go in the future first. Sometimes parents/adults make marriage look easy, but believe me it is more than it seems and alot of it has to do with age and life experiences, take your time build a strong relationship with him and in about 5yrs go for it, if you still want to.
2006-10-21 08:47:20 · answer #6 · answered by DeltaQueen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
16 is young. You need not rush into matrimony as of now wait for a few years more let your bfd settle down and be more mature, After all after you are married he must find money to support you. It is not a good idea for one so young . I have known several who have married young go for divorce but remember there may be exceptions
2006-10-21 08:45:42 · answer #7 · answered by R C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT IS WAY TO EARLY! ONLY 5 MONTHS! U TWO DONT FULLY KNOW EACH OTHER YET. YOU STILL HAVE SO MUCH TO LEARN AND GROW AS INDIVIDUALS LET AS PARTNERS. IF YOU WANT MAYBE BE ENGAGED FOR AT LEAST A YEAR OR TWO AND EVEN THEN YOU WOULD STILL HAVE AN UP HILL BATTLE. I GOT MARRIED AT 22 AND SHE WAS 20 WE KNEW EACH OTHER FOR ALL MOST 4 YEARS....WE SEPARATED AND DIVORCED IN LESS THAN 2 YEARS!! IT WAS HER CHOICE!
2006-10-21 08:46:24 · answer #8 · answered by patrick h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not smart, because you lack a real maturity. You can easily afford to wait two years and vbecome a more complete person.
You shouldn't go from being daddy's daughter to someone's wife without defining who you really are
2006-10-21 08:42:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey,your life is just starting.you are younge,and should me having all kinds of boyfriends.you are to younge to settle down.finish school,and you shouldnt be laying on no ones bed.because you are 16.at that age only one thing comes to mind on boys.sex-sex-sex!get real and live a little.
2006-10-21 08:45:33 · answer #10 · answered by sweet_4_dale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋