yea my boyfriend asked me to marry him and i told hm yes cause i really love him but i don't know if it was i wise desicion or not. we have been together for about 5 months now and just a week ago he asked me when we were in him room laying on his bed!!!!!!!
2006-10-21 01:38:21 · 13 answers · asked by samantha e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah thats a little young especially for only been dating for 5 months. If you want to get married, just make it a long engagement. Tell him you will stay engaged but want to wait until after high school before you even talk about setting a date. That way it gives you plenty of time to make sure he is the one and that marriage is the right thing to do.
2006-10-21 01:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I do not think it is wise to get married at 16. I was with my EX Husband from 14 years old to 20yrs. We got married when I was 19, right after I had my first child, and got divorced when I was 20, right after I had my second child. Most people have different ideas about life at 16 then they do when they are older. If you really love your boyfriend, then there is no reason to rush in to marriage. Wait to see if you still feel the same way about each other in 5 years or even 1 year. I hope you think this whole thing out before you make any decisions.
2006-10-21 08:58:38 · answer #2 · answered by fdk30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really think it's love, then just postpone the marriage for 2 years. Then, at least you'll be 18. I got married to my hubby when we were both 19, and it has been rough, but we've been together since we were 15. We've been together 10 years now, and still going strong (thank God!). Marriage is not the easiest thing in the world, and it will take a lot of work, love, dedication, and patience on both your parts. There is no need to rush it. Definitely see how your relationship grows and progresses over the next year or so, discuss it with BOTH your parents, and when you're 18, marry him if both of you still want to go through with it. Just be prepared for a lot of work! Getting married young is easy. Staying together and having a happy, healthy marriage is extremely difficult (especially nowadays!).
Good luck & best wishes with whatever you decide to do!
2006-10-21 08:49:57 · answer #3 · answered by Jemmie Vee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok i asked my mom this and she gave me and answer with out even telling me yes or no. She simply said... How are you going to pay for a wedding?, How are you going to get there?, Where will you live after ward?, What if you get pregnant and don't have enough money?, And how are you gonna pay your bills? All these questions...All my answers were "I don't know" so ask your self similair questions. That will decide if you should or not.
2006-10-21 08:44:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are way to young to be in someones bed besides your own and talking about getting married. You haven't even lived your life yet. Whats the rush on growing up! Y'all children need to stop playing adult and wait until you lived a little more to do the things you are doing. Go talk to your mom and hopefully she kicks your ***
2006-10-21 08:42:37 · answer #5 · answered by trice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kiddinng me, you re 16, And what he is 12. Girl at 16 I didn't know what I wanted, you have a whole life to live and you are still young.. Dont do it.
2006-10-21 08:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by Girly-Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are both truely in Love go for it don't let age stop you from going forward in your life. many poeple search their whole lives and never find true Love. so l say go for the best while you are still young and good luck to the both of you.
2006-10-21 08:48:15 · answer #7 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO..........!!!!! Your "Way too young", go out and experience the world before you settle down, You have so many years to have fun before the serious financial pressures burden you. Live you teenage years with know constraits and enjoy your freedom whilst you have it.
2006-10-21 08:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by oooooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is too young to married~~! you have your whole ahead you, do it later~! i know you love him , i know he want you but you both must plan first b4 you both do so. like where r u both goin to stay after married , how much expenses do you both need to maintain your life and planning for baby. you should think b4 you do that.
2006-10-21 08:41:48 · answer #9 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait a bit longer. I mean, you've only been dating for 5 months...
2006-10-21 08:40:25 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋