Every guy i have ever dated has "fixed" themselves right in front of me. Once i was at dinner with one guy and he did it the whole date. Then the guy i'm interested in now did it at school underneath the table. But he shoved his whole hand down his pants and did it. It is really hard to act like you don't know what htey are doing but i try to keep talking without freaking out. What should i do, when i see that next time?
2006-10-21 01:26:23 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What are you 14 years old? Guys get itches down there or sometimes the package has to be repositioned. Learn to live it.
If your panties were in a bunch (it sounds like they are), would you walk around like that all day?
PS - I'm assuming you didn't mean they jerk themselves off cause that would just be creepy.
2006-10-21 01:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just keep doing what you have been , because this is just one of those things that some guys do . If it really bothers you ,ask him not to do that at table , or just don't go out in public with him . GL............I'm looking at some of these answers ,and can tell about what age group is answering ,I said SOME guys do this , personally , I see it all the time , I don't get disgusted about it , I just roll my eyes and look the other way . In defense of the guys , I have seen women do that panty thing like 1 answerer said , and I 've seen women constantly adjusting bra straps , I don't think either of those things are acceptable in public , but some people do it, always have, and always will.Maybe cuz I'm an old woman I look at it differently. Personally I can deal with this better than I can with public nose picking!! Again GL
2006-10-21 01:30:23 · answer #2 · answered by ridingthestorm_out 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certain things should be done in private. How often do we see baseball players adjusting themselves & spitting. If I were the owner, I'd fine them each time they did this for being inappropriate. Next time say "Hey, dude -- are you looking for something or having a problem ? Fix yourself in private!" (I think guys think this is acceptable, because rappers are constantly touching and grabbing themselves -- I can't believe people actually think this is acceptable behavior -- it's NOT !)
2006-10-21 01:40:24 · answer #3 · answered by Maewest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys "fix" themselves in front of anyone. Many immature "boys" might, but a mature respectful man doesn't. it has nothing to do with age. These boys your with are telling you they don't respect you. Why hang with them? Find others that will that you like the Lady you are.
2006-10-21 01:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u r too hot and everytime any guy goes out he gets a burner and then he might be havin trouble if he is wearin 2 tight pants so the guy cannot help it but i fail 2 understand why they do it in front of u dont they have a wash room
2006-10-21 01:32:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they were hoping to get lucky so they shaved themselves before they met up with you..Shaving can at times cause incredible itching depending on the growth.
But to be honest, i agree, its not appropriate to adjust yourself in-front of a lady.
But in defense of myself and other guys, sometimes your balls itch.. Sometimes you move in the wrong position and they twist up, and then a incredible amount of pain sets in. When it becomes unbearable the last thing you think about is running to the bathroom to save face in front of a lady..
In conclusion, Chivalry is dead, and women killed it by wanting to be equals.
2006-10-21 01:33:51 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should try and date a guy that likes you for know you are not a guy who is just in it for the "experience"
i think you should try and know the person properly before dating,
and if they do do it in front of you leave!
2006-10-21 01:29:17 · answer #7 · answered by HJ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've asked at one point in public "uhh, what are you doing?". Stare straight at them when they do it with a look on your face as if you were outdone. Some men, do it without even thinking about it. Some I think do it just to draw attention to themselves, other's I feel do it as a sort of I'm a man ego boost.
2006-10-21 01:36:54 · answer #8 · answered by Lucy Lu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be a real turn on, cos when a mans pe nis erects and contracts, pubic hairs get caught between the foreskin and the actual gland or head and sometimes this can be very uncomfortable and painful. other times the pe nis gets caught and the rubbing can cause an erection which could be very embarressing for some people.
2006-10-21 01:31:15 · answer #9 · answered by joey h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a big deal,no reason to freak out they are only adjusting themselves. Sure they could probably be a bit more discreet and if it bothers you that bad then tell them you don't want to see it.
2006-10-21 01:30:55 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋