I am deeply in love with a girl I have never gone out with her unfortunately. i told her i like her, but she rejected me which makes me very depressed. The reason is she already in love with another guy. Also sadly, that guy doesn't like her at all. She and me fall in a similar situation. But she still doesn't like me. Do i still have chance? What should i do? How to make her like me? Should i wait for her?
The problem is after i told her i like her. She doesn't want to talk to me like ignoring me. She seems will love her guy forever.
i think my brain will never stop thinking her. i can't control myself. she is the one i want to share my life with.
2006-10-21 00:40:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well. i guess that if you really love her, you should wait for her. true love waits ya know?! yeah, you still have a chance. NOTE: only applicable if you really LOVE her. ok? so if ur not sure that u love her, find another person...because ur just wasting ur time on this girl...
2006-10-21 00:47:42 · answer #1 · answered by smashmouth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know anything? HELLO?
Ease it up a little, buddy. First of all, why would a girl want a guy who falls apart at the seems?Did you make your move physically? I bet not. There is a thing called DOMINANCE. Girls want the best partner that they can get. She already knew that, you are in love with her. trust me. Your best bet is to play her off like she's a homeless bag lady. Do everything you usually do. Except loving her the way you do.Cause that's kinda scary. its like your obsessed with her and that's not cool.Go ***** some or all of her girl friends. And pay absolutely NO attention to her . NO CALLS AT ALL. you can not show interest in her. LET KNOW THAT, YA, you do like her a lot. But your not stuck on a deserted island and there are many girls (hot girls) that can and Will satisfy your needs.
You broke some of the "GOLDEN RULES"
if you have a 19" tv. and it broke. would you want another 19" tv? Hell NO! you want and dream about that 60" plasma with surround sound. the same goes for girls and guys.no one wants what they already have or can have. there's no excitement in that.
2006-10-21 08:09:57 · answer #2 · answered by confeuzdus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing about life is that you can't always have what you want. Love shouldn't be forced on someone's throat. She doesn't like you, leave her and go find another person who will cherish you. What if you had begun dating, she would never open up to you and will make your life miserable to the point that you would have regretted even going into the relationship in the first place. She's not the one for you, there are others out there. All you have to do is to look.
2006-10-21 07:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by Banana Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.... you have to stop and look at this for a second. If you are deeply in love with her than u should wait for her, and of course you have a chance, everyone has a chance. Maybe she isn't trying to ignore you, maybe its just been a coincidence. Talk to her, if you know her very well and know what she likes to do, then ask her to go with you to one of her favorite places. If you don't know her very well than stirke up a conversation and get to know her more and then think if you still like her enough. But if she really is ignoring you then, do you really want to be with someone forever who is like that? So I hoped that helped you, I know how you feel, so GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-21 07:55:56 · answer #4 · answered by |katt| 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a woman's perspective, we tend to find ourselves attracted to men who are bad, and we reject the bad guys. If you are really into her, then just be patient and try to be understanding, If and when the guy she is currently in love with breaks her heart, just be a good man and be there for her. If she fail to realize you are indeed a good man then perhaps she is truly not the woman for you. Believe me there are some of us good women out there who have learned from accepting love from the bad guys and what we have accepted is that the really good men may already be in our lives. Trust me there is a good woman already in waiting to meet a great guy, Don't miss out on the opportunity to find her by waiting for someone who may never be the right woman for you. Why subject yourself to what may later become painful for you. My dad use to say if you snooze you lose.
Sassy Suga
2006-10-21 07:58:35 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy Shut Your Mouth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just calm down and think with a cool head.
First of all read this quote:
"If someone rejects your love dont worry
because you have lost someone who never loved you
but they have lost someone who always loved"
Now the practical side, if she doesnt like you that plainly means she doesnt, you dont have to think more about it.Why should you worry or cry over someone who wont cry over you.
I would say SCREW IT as i always say. Dont screw up your life for someone who dont care for you the least! Hope you got me!
If you feel worried or want any advice on this matter, feel free to contact me. I have dealt such so many cases. So i repeat screw it, go get a life man !!
2006-10-21 07:53:54 · answer #6 · answered by Undertaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try harder. I've known a lot of people who doesnt like there there sutors but eventually they end up together. Sometimes you need to be patient to get her heart. But give your self a time frame, after giving your best you must also know when to give up.
Research about her (but dont act like a stalker) Research about what he likes most, loves to do, favorite color, stuff and his interests. invite her out having the options that she likes to do, and not to mention be a friend to her friends sometimes you really need to extend the courtship upto his friends. Most of the time friends can really help.
Most of all pray for her.
GodBless
2006-10-21 07:50:37 · answer #7 · answered by eloi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just find another girl, shes not the last one in the world.
2006-10-21 07:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really sorry to say this.
if she doesnt like you and has made that clear also she is not wanting to speak to you , she already answered your question there really isnt any hope .
its is hard to let go but you have to because frankly you cant keep chasing someone who keeps running in the other direction
2006-10-21 07:45:16 · answer #9 · answered by asian_smartie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Possibly to a bottle. Those "geek gets the girl" movies are not a reality.
2006-10-21 07:45:51 · answer #10 · answered by PS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋