I can't afford 2 hav my parents know about him cuz dey r conservative n especially opposed 2 this particular boy. A small pendant or ring will b far more welcome. How do i tell him this?? I don't want to hurt him
2006-10-21 00:37:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its exactly the case with my GF,her parents are extra conservative.This is what my gf said me when i offered her such gifts,
She said that she cant accept such gifts from me now but she would love to once we get married.So she requested me to wait till we get married.She also asked me not to feel hurt and try to understand her conditions at home.
2006-10-21 00:43:57 · answer #1 · answered by Undertaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth, straight up with no embellishments about how your parents feel about him. He has to find out sooner or later that they don't like him. He should understand. If he still insists on giving you large gifts then he's playing some sort of stupid game with you and you should find someone else.
2006-10-21 00:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by canucklehead1951 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he know ur parents dont like him if so explain to him there to hard to hide. if not tell him u would love a smaller gift like a ring so u can have it on u at all times as a symbol of his love
2006-10-21 00:42:05 · answer #3 · answered by mrs nevz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
adult males will by no potential get the entire present factor. you will tell him to drop some pounds, and then whinge which you think of you're fat. Then if he supplies a Jenny Craig coupon, you go ballistic. we are idiots. can we in basic terms provide you cash? are you able to easily let us know what to purchase?
2016-10-02 12:45:06 · answer #4 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give those gifts to your parents and tell them that you have bought those for them
2006-10-21 00:41:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your boyfriend, then he should know this. Joke lightly about having him hide the stuff at his house. He will get the hint.
2006-10-21 00:43:03 · answer #6 · answered by jennifer c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy, tell him in a calm and cool manner. If he cares for you, he would understand.
2006-10-21 00:44:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
any relationship the requires you to have to hide anything is probally not a really productive relationship.
2006-10-21 00:44:28 · answer #8 · answered by bluesharpman_642000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You actually say it out loud so he can hear you clearly. There's no other way girl
2006-10-21 00:40:45 · answer #9 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can't be proud to be seen with him or tell your parents, you should not go out with him
2006-10-21 00:40:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋