i mean, i believe that almost all of my crushes likes or had liked this girl. yeah, she's pretty. but no. she doesn't have the body. she's a *****. she's easy to get. she's hairy. and she's definitely not nice to girls but she's like totally nice when she's around guys. hardly any girls like her. but a lot of guys are courting her. why is that? there's nothing so special about her...although she's beautiful. so i'm thinking that guys like girls who are easy to get so like when they court a girl, the girl says yes and he wouldn't look stupid in front of his friends forbeing busted.. is this true?
2006-10-21 00:26:00 · 19 answers · asked by smashmouth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-21 00:32:06 · answer #1 · answered by PETE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right for the most part. Teenagers and immature male adults ever will take her out and have their way with her because she is easy. However, once a guy is ready to settle down, and a few young adults and teens who have morals, will not touch her simply because she has been around the block. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? I know that it is hard, but you should feel sorry for her because, 9 times out of 10 when a girl is easy to get, she was molested as a child and thinks that is how she gets love. I am glad you see that these guys don't love her and are using her. Perhaps you could befriend her and get her to do something besides sleeping around. She probably isn't nice to girls because she hasn't had the experiences of a true friendship. Her safety is very, very much at risk here as STD's are rapid in today's society. There are some out there they haven't named yet. Good luck, I hope this helps you.
2006-10-21 00:39:10 · answer #2 · answered by jennifer c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it is easy to get a girl why bother to go after one that is hard to get. But there is the difference. The one that is hard to get perhaps is not frustrated, is bidding for her time is sensible. The easy ones can go to any length always in a make belief mode. All ways imagining that who they are with may be the ultimate and suffer after when things fall apart
2006-10-21 00:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I prefer women whom are attainable. Does that mean I want easy women? Admittedly, more so than those hard to get. The problem with hard to get as a concept is that it tends to be presumed as part of a game, one we aren't sure we can pass, for whatever reason. It's one thing to be tested for worthiness but feel you have a realistic chance, it's another to be lead on a string for an uncertain reward. Some men like hard to get, I'd sooner turn and walk away.
2006-10-21 00:32:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
some do --- as you have noticed --- and some dont
if all a guy wants is a quick one then he will look for a easy lay if he is looking for a longer term relationship will look beyond the sex at the person ---- sonetimes the easy lay and the personality are together --- sometimes not
i have learned to look beyond the easy lay because once you establish a relationship the sex just gets better and better --- you learn more and more about each other and you have other things to excite you and engage your mind
2006-10-21 00:32:16 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it depends on the guy himself,
some people like challange to get what they want,
others dont like challange at all and they get to what they want with the easiest ways,
so,
it's not an absolute case,
but if i were you,
i would hang out with a girl that meet everyday another different guy,
2006-10-21 00:34:59 · answer #6 · answered by Dreams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you mean by "easy". If you mean that if they like a guy and he asks them out she says yes instead of pretending not to like the guy? Those are the only girls I would like.
If by "easy" you mean that the girl will go out with anyone and have sex on the first date? No, I don't like those type of girls. But most guys will go out with them once and awhile to get sex.
2006-10-21 00:56:21 · answer #7 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It differs with age, but guys want to be with girls that other guys want to be with. Its a dominance thing. It sounds like you are talking about a group of people you hang out with. I will say that most guys who show interest in a girl will rarely do it tiwce if he is totally blown off by her unless he is just fugly then it seems that those guys almost like to get shut down.
2006-10-21 00:39:45 · answer #8 · answered by bldrjck 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Easy come , easy go.
I prefer the ones with self esteem and a personality.
P.S. Not those with attitude problem
2006-10-21 00:32:57 · answer #9 · answered by Achilles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi Jazz this question maximum probable flies top over some men head by way of fact they simply think of with the different head. i admire women that are favourite and basic to get alongside with, they are able to play perplexing to get in the event that they choose as long as they are friendly. i do no longer choose to beg for a date in case you recognize what i advise and if it works out for us it would be incredibly superb.
2016-10-15 06:25:13 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to get is well, hard to get. I prefer women who are more experienced, but that is just what I prefer. I agree with runs with scissors, it is part of a game, and it can be way to frustrating.
2006-10-21 01:28:51 · answer #11 · answered by Bryce I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋