I met a girl at dancing classes. I like her. We enjoy dancing together and have a good time. I thought she likes me until today. Today I walked with her a good while after the dancing ended. I found out that we have some common passions. She told me a lot of stuff about her, actually she was speaking the most. She also told me about a club where is retro music and said she wants to go there but she doesn't have with who to go. When I was about to leave I asked her if she would like to go to that club this week and she said that she doesn't promise me anything.. she will let me know and she has to ask some coleagues of her to come too. Also, she said that she is very busy with school saying that she has papers to do and she will start the driving school... and then we said good night, mentioning that we will meet at the next dance class. I guess this is rejection? I need to know if it worths to give another try or to leave her alone. I know that she's single.
2006-10-21 00:09:25 · 10 answers · asked by europe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't necessarily think that she is rejecting you, but instead, protecting herself. In this day and age, you can never be sure who it is that you are going on a "date" with. She is probably a little nervous about you since you two don't know each other very well. Her reasoning for asking some of her colleagues to go is the "safety in numbers" idea. If she wants to go, let her colleagues go too. Once she realizes that you can be trusted, then she will be more willing to go on a one on one date in the future. Just give it some time and be patient and don't give up.
2006-10-21 00:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by blackwidow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the time they are three or four. This little girl at church was having a birthday party and because her best friend was there, her cousin was also at church with them that day, she told her cousin that her best friend was coming to the party and she wasn't. Now, of course the cousin still got invited to the party and they had a ball but the mean girl mentality normally starts with singling others out to become friends with a more popular group. I would teach my kids that all kids go through a stage like that, boy or girl, and that they need to not pick their friends because of who will make them more popular but for who is the good friend. And if my daughter turned out to be a mean girl then I'd sit down with her and have a chat about it but if the behavior continues then I'd probably do more about it. No one likes a mean girl; not even another mean girl.
2016-05-22 07:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say that she was blowing you off it sounds llike to me!
If she wanted to go with you she wouldnt have made all the excuses that she did. But on the other hand what could it hurt trying again.Some girls just like to play hard to see if you are really interesed. Good luck!
2006-10-21 00:13:06 · answer #3 · answered by wholelottalove4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah, that wall is pretty high. Careful how you break it down. If you lead her on, it will be put right back up and virtually impossible for the next guy who could be sincere.
2006-10-21 00:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by jennifer c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lay low for awhile is my suggestion. You opened the door already ...she knows youre interested. Leave the ball in her court if she's undecided. No sense in you panicking if she's backed off already!
2006-10-21 00:17:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may want to get to know you better before going out with you alone
dont give up dont be always asking --- if she is interested she will let you know
dont change how you interact with her
2006-10-21 00:17:00 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone and look for someone else.
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2006-10-21 00:12:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she either was nervous and didnt kno what to say, or she was suprised and doesnt want to go with you....i would bring it up again and then you'll see
2006-10-21 08:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need someone in tune with you!
2006-10-21 06:32:51 · answer #9 · answered by BOOYAH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it alone.
2006-10-21 01:09:53 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋