even after months of dating, she has not yet come-up. If she is shy or afraid of it?
2006-10-20 23:13:01 · 26 answers · asked by kl0805 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she's not sure if you're "the one"???
She obviously isn't ready to have sex whether thats just with you or with anyone is irrevelant, respect her and if you really care for her you'll not force or harass her into doing something she doesn't want to do
2006-10-20 23:17:02 · answer #1 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
How are we supposed to help with so little information? Why dont you ask her for a start?
How old is she/you? Do you love each other? Is birth control sorted? Have you talked about having sex? Do you talk about other things???? Are you good friends as well as potential lovers? Is she waiting for you to make the first move?
2006-10-21 06:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by Caroline 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just doesn't want to have sex yet! Does that have to mean anything? She has the freedom to choose when she is ready to have sex, without you jumping to assumptions as to why. If you love and care for her then just respect that she is not ready yet!
2006-10-21 06:18:28 · answer #3 · answered by Yaz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The issue here is you want your wicked way with her ?Girls are not lumps of meat to be used when it suits you have you thought about how she is feeling ?maybe she would like to wait until she is married nothing wrong with that & when she does find the right person that person will give her the respect which you are obviously lacking.
2006-10-21 06:17:31 · answer #4 · answered by edison 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a few months is too soon. let the relationship evolve, it takes year's to create a strong bond. get to know the girl a little better, don't just think about sex. she probably want's to take it easy with you. be a friend to her first. if you create a strong friendship the natural progression is to become lovers. she has to feel a physical attraction toward's you and there has to be chemistry.
2006-10-21 06:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by russellhamuk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is the most privat intimate vulnerable place a woman can ever be.You should be proud you have a girl who have morals and does not just give it to every guy that makes her very special.I think she probably would like to wait until marraige or maybe she wants to wait a year whatever it is wait for her .Dont push just enjoy the other facets of your relationship.
2006-10-21 07:16:13 · answer #6 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old is she? Anyway, there can be several reasons, we can make up most of them, but you will only know the truth if you ask her in an environment of confidence and respect, telling her that you will respect and understand her answer and that she shouldnt be afraid of telling you the reasons.
2006-10-21 06:15:30 · answer #7 · answered by Absintha . 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How old is she?
Maybe she isn't ready for such a big thing to happen, especially if she's a virgin.
Don't pressure her, get mad at her and definitely don't cheat on her.
Give her time, if you care anything about her you would wait and not complain on a public place like the internet about it. ; )
2006-10-21 06:16:36 · answer #8 · answered by Cucking Fracked 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That is a question you should be having with her. We are all different with reasons why or why not. We can only guess. I have my reasons. You should respect her wishes. If you want a serious relationship with her, you need to sit down with her and discuss these issues with her.
2006-10-21 06:15:15 · answer #9 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe a romantic time after a candle light dinner, wine and music,if it works post the pics online please.haha
2006-10-21 08:17:47 · answer #10 · answered by windman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋