Obviously not intercourse but it seems such a grey area we are a bit confused as to where to draw the line as every answer can be different. The Bible seems a bit unclear! Any answers would be a great help, don't be shy!!
2006-10-20 22:20:28 · 23 answers · asked by h_a2gether 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
What is Between Husband/Wife is just that
As long as it does not put strain on the Marriage and cause conflict then all is good(no Adultery)
2006-10-20 22:23:52 · answer #1 · answered by snuggels102 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a World Series going on? Yuperhee, the baseball analogy works best; Nothing beyond First Base, a polite kiss, no agressive kissing and no groping - - - that is what most Evangelicals would argue. Lapsed Catholics and More Liberal types might say Second Base, agressive kissing & groping, but even they would say no way to Third Base or a Home Run.
Personally, why not celebrate love rather than restrict it? But if you are truly a Modern Christian than sex is strictly for producing children and never for pleasure. You are suppose to find pleasure only in accepting Christ as your personal savior.
2006-10-21 05:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by JVHawai'i 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Memory unreliable,... I'm led to believe there should be none, least not till you've sighted a ring of some kind,
house deposit, these Christians have this "burn in hell stuff" that comes up from time to time and it doesn't sound that crash hot, You'll be fine as long as you keep in mind .. The extra material in the wedding dress adds to the cost overall of the wedding
You may need a groom as an equal participant
Parents may be needed to give you away
If whatever activity advised fits in ......fine, as long as you are comfortable there may be a greater being watching
2006-10-21 09:47:02 · answer #3 · answered by renclrk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... I think since the Good Book is unclear about this what would best suit the couple is what has to be done. Neither of them must go to the extend that the other would be uneasy. Doing this outside the marriage is what God despises but since it's with the wife or husband, anything goes.
2006-10-21 05:31:50 · answer #4 · answered by Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adam and Eve were the first couple, God never intended for anything to take His place in our lives marrage is A THREE WAY relationship not two way, God and Adam, Eve and God, when mankind took up A relationship that pushed Him out in preference to the other that is when satan got in, God is the glue that holds relationships together, we live in a world that has a total death rate, The Second member of the Godhead Jesus Christ is THE ONLY Way out, and ANYTHING that blocks that exit, even sexual activity is dangerous, like the thiefs on the cross we are as good as dead now, how much "activity" do we really need and what activity do we put ahead of our relationship with Jesus Christ? hay free bible lessons www.itiswritten.com God bless you, why not visit a Seventh Day Adventist Church in your area.
2006-10-21 05:27:59 · answer #5 · answered by wgr88 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Christianity and most other religions are sacred when it comes to sexual intercourse and maybe it is sacred for a reason, don't be put off by trying to understand religion as it will only put a strain on your sexual habits, but enjoy love and what comes with it is sacred to you, not a religion.
Be yourself behind closed doors with your loved one and discover the feeling of freedom of love between you and your partner and I'm sure god will not judge you for loving one another.
2006-10-21 05:32:37 · answer #6 · answered by shubostuff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read my lips: Don't do "it" until you are married. If you feel you are going to do "it", then get married. There are many religions that have "arranged marriages", and they seem to get along fine. The woman is a virgin and considered a "jewel".. The same for Christians, you get married and then do "it".... period. If you want to kiss and do all that other stuff, then you might as well, be going all the way. It will lead there, so just calm down, and wait.. It is called "adultery". One of the ten commandments, "thou shall not commit adultery"....Of course, if you love someone, you want to kiss them, and I am not saying that is wrong, it is just the undressing, going to bed and doing all of that stuff, keep it holy, and you will not be sorry and have a beautiful wedding night. I did, and did not regret it.
2006-10-21 05:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by shardf 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
dont touch anything that you havent got and your partner should not touch anything that they havent got.
the bible is clear
1 Corinthians 7:36
If anyone is worried that he might not be acting honorably toward the virgin he is engaged to, and if she is getting beyond the usual age for marrying and he feels he ought to marry, he should do as he wants. He is not sinning. They should get married.
2006-10-21 05:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by proscunio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even from the perspective of religion . . . I don't see what moral barriers there could possibly be to a married couple. Anything consensual should be fair game ----- just my $0.02.
2006-10-21 05:25:37 · answer #9 · answered by Zombie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the bible states exactly what types of intimacy are wrong.
anything between a husband and wife provided both parties are happy is acceptable.
2006-10-21 05:24:27 · answer #10 · answered by Twilight_dreaming 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋