I get realy nervice and shy around you women still and i dont know what it is. What would be your advice. Thanx (im 18_)
2006-10-20 20:01:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh hell.....you'll grow out of it. I used to be shy around boys/men when I was your age. I'm not now. LOL
2006-10-20 20:03:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Treat the women as people, not just females. Do you get nervous and shy around men too? If yes, you might just be a shy person. If no, then act similary towards women, the way you do with men. Good luck!
2006-10-20 20:20:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry u will get over that i always got nervous around boys i use to not give the guy i like any eye cantact if he'd look may way i would turn my head so quickly but, soon enough i got over it i was able to talk to him ... i still get just a little bit nervous ... u WILL get over it... but u might wont to let the girl start the conection between u 2 then u take it from there
2006-10-20 20:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by ur not so average white gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you will get better with practice! :)
A couple of things: try to talk about general things to make you less nervous. Get hints from things she might like and talk about those things. Movies, music, a class you have in common.
Tell them you're shy! Make a kind of joke, about how you're very shy -- will help break the ice and explain to them that you're not stuckup - just shy. Also, lots of girls dig shy guys :)
2006-10-20 20:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by Black Parade Billie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women find shyness a turn on. And you may find someone who can pull out the animal in you. Do you have friends that are girls? If you don't make friends with girls. You'll learn alot from them. Plus that'll jump start you with learning how to communicate with the opposite sex.
2006-10-20 20:08:40 · answer #5 · answered by 00jag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey don't worry about it, everyone is nervous at times. Some people can hide it better than others. But once you get to know a girl you'll get more confident. Don't worry about having to move to fast, when you're comfortable, it will be easier. good luck, just have fun!
2006-10-20 20:07:13 · answer #6 · answered by mink_kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice would be to relax and be yourself. If you act too nervous, that will be a turn off So just, be yourself and talk, don't sit there and not say anything because then, you will miss out on perhaps meeting someone.
2006-10-20 20:05:32 · answer #7 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't show that you are nervous. that's the only advice i can give. you're a teenager, being nervous around the opposite gender is normal, so act as if you're cool. goodluck.
2006-10-20 20:03:33 · answer #8 · answered by Inquirer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it...you are only young you will build up more confidence with time, and don't take yourself so serious...relax! and take everything in your stride, just breath slowly when you feel the nervousness coming on, then release it, and be yourself.
2006-10-20 20:28:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
'cause ya got a little pecker,dont worry get 'em drunk they'll never remember>
2006-10-20 20:04:42 · answer #10 · answered by mister-fister 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋