hey, im 14 and have been dating my gf for about a month. i'd like to get more "physical" with her.(kissing,hugging,holding hands) but im not sure if she'd like that or not. what should i do??? honest answers please.
2006-10-20 19:41:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's best to move slow until you are sure of where you're going! If this is your first relationship don't be pushy and try to rush things, just enjoy the feeling of caring for someone. When she is ready,she will probably kiss you! You might give her a kiss on the cheek if you experience a special time together. She might think you don't want to kiss her. What ever you decide to do, and I know your hormones are going wild but keep in mind, girls have hearts,feelings and pride and it doesn't take many foot prints on their hearts to make them cold and hard hearted. So before you say those three magical words besure it's love and not lust!
2006-10-20 20:54:35 · answer #1 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tie your hands together. Don't get worked up. Don't worry it'll be time for you to have a chance and have all of that. Your too young. You might try going slow, but I think you can hold hands, I don't think that's a big problem. Let her have more time for the hugging and kissing thing. Maybe she's not one of those girls and get into bed with someone. Have fun and don't pressure her or your self. Oh and one more thing don't listen to other friends about getting her into bed. I don't think your ready to be a father yet. Trust me you need to live your life and have more fun.
2006-10-21 02:48:00 · answer #2 · answered by shy_gal2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be fully open and honest with her. Tell her how you feel and explain that you are not sure that if she feels the same.
If you are honest neither of you are wasting each others time, but if you keep going on saying nothing then imagine all the good times you could be missing.
Everyone loves someone who is honest.
2006-10-21 05:02:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just kisses her lightly and pull away and if you wanna hug her just hug her same goes for holding her hand
2006-10-21 03:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by blood_shadow_walks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just when you're around her just give her a hug. It's not that difficult. When you want to kiss her look deeply in her eyes and then just do it. When your walking side-by-side take her hand into yours
2006-10-21 02:46:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she doesnt like that, then she isnt ready for a relationship. A month is a long time for a guy like you to make the move. So get to truckin'
2006-10-21 02:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to her and ask her how she feel cause nine times out of ten she wants you to do those things but she's waiting for you to make the first move so i say just sit down and talk to her it wont hurt to say how you feel that's how you get things done so good luck
2006-10-21 02:49:16 · answer #7 · answered by sarah l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cool 2 points
2006-10-22 12:16:55 · answer #8 · answered by EL GANGSTA. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient...time works wonders.
2006-10-21 02:45:52 · answer #9 · answered by coral 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if shed like her turkey basted
2006-10-21 03:02:06 · answer #10 · answered by brian f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋