2006-10-20 19:39:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because you feel more about the person, so it's a more meaning and emotional bonding with someone, instead of pure animal act.
2006-10-20 21:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by sexy_cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For most people lust and acting out on lust turns out to be a lonely and empty experience. I have had a few one night stands in my younger days and even tried to turn two of them into relationships even though sex was the only thing we had to share. Sex is better when you love the person because hopefully the act of making love will mean something more to you.. to share that intimacy and vulnerability with your lover... that is intense, powerful, and beautiful. Casual sex is just like glorified masturbation... like using someone as a jungle gym... and then hoping they go away quietly.
2006-10-21 02:48:31 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex within a marriage is not lust but love. Sex before or outside marriage is lust and adultery.
2006-10-21 03:25:15 · answer #3 · answered by George 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends whether u are a man or a woman. generally speaking, most men can have sex with any woman he lusts for, so its not true to say that it considered to have sex w the person u love.
for example, i, as a man might not love Cameron Diaz, but i definitely lust after her and will not hestitate to have sex with her IF i am still single and not married.
but if u are a woman, its mostly true that u need love to be able to enjoy sex.
2006-10-21 03:07:21 · answer #4 · answered by maximus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because theres a diffrence you are only a virgin once it's somethinig speacil to a person ( well at least most girls ) why not give it to a speacil person? and there is a difference bettween Lust and Love with you lust some one you just want there body but if you love someone you want to show them how much and normaly having sex or as most pepole would say making love that is a way you show them it there is a DIference.
2006-10-21 02:51:06 · answer #5 · answered by blood_shadow_walks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The wanting of sex is the lust. When you have sex with someone you love it becomes much more than sex due to the emotional commitment involved, it becomes making love. If its without love then sex is purely for physical gratification, while making love is for physical and emotional gratification.
-NmD!
2006-10-21 02:51:12 · answer #6 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's received the label of lust, but didn't start out that way... it's supposed to be about reproduction, unity, closeness, oneness... love/caring about one another's needs.
Lusting means selfish desire.
2006-10-21 02:53:27 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make love to the person you love... its always good. You have sex with people you don't know... its great!
2006-10-21 02:44:04 · answer #8 · answered by Chip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because sex is not only about lust
2006-10-21 02:42:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to be in love to have sex with someone, but it really helps!
2006-10-21 02:45:29 · answer #10 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋