Well we had two really good conversations that I felt pretty confident about. However... our last one I had asked her if she had a locker partner. I told her that my locker buddies kept messin around with me, and that yea it was funny but I was gettin tired of it. She said she already had one I was like oh that's cool, where you headed next? She said Bio so and so. But then we kinda drifted apart without saying goodbye.
The next day *She knows my sister but doesn't know I'm her brother yet* she was talking with a group of friends, my sister was in the group and she heard her bring me up in a conversation. She said something like, "This dude I didn't even know asked me to share a locker with em the other day"
So I don't know if she was trying to get their opinion on whether a random person approaching her like that would have interest or is just creepy.
Either way I'm lost on my next move.
No answers like, just ask her out. I already know that won't work.
2006-10-20 19:35:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also she's a really sweet person and wouldn't brag about something like how many guys she's reeled in or something. She doesn't know very many guys either.
2006-10-20 19:36:09 · update #1
get your sister to find out more about her and what she thought... she doesnt know youre her brother right?
just go up to her and say im sorry if I freaked you out...Im not that good at conversations opr something along those lines...
Make her feel more confident and less shy around you act relaxed and joke around or something...
Good Luck
2006-10-20 19:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by ██████████ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You spoke to her twice, so no she doesn't know you and yes you creeped her out. So when you speak to her again, kindly inform her that you WAS NOT asking to share a locker with her. Tell her that you was just telling her about your weird locker buddies and was wondering if she had the same problem. Also don't ask her out on a date, just speak to her or wave (not like a jerk) when you see her. Try to get to know her better, allow her to become comfortable with you before you try to make a move on her.
*It's up to you if you want to tell her about your sister. You can wait until she ask if you have family at the school or if you know any of her friends. If she ask you straight out tell the truth, because she already knows.
2006-10-20 19:55:11 · answer #2 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just try to get to know her better. Maybe when she hangs out with her friends (and your sister is included) go along too. Or just strike up more locker conversations. Make sure she knows your name and be genuine. If she likes you, it will work. Don't worry about creeping her out. She would have said so to her friends.
2006-10-20 19:39:56 · answer #3 · answered by shellih85215 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The reason she said that was most likely to have her friends think she is more popular with guys. I doubt she was creeped out by it as much as flattered. Take it one day at a time and talk to her, get to know her and see where it leads. A side note, a girl/women will not carry on several conversations with you if she is creeped out by you.
-NmD!
2006-10-20 19:41:46 · answer #4 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, that's such a cute story. Sorry, I wish I knew what to tell you. I'm just answering for two points and so I'll have this answer bookmarked cause I want to see what other people say. I was in a situation similar to yours once, and I never did figure out what to do...be we didn't have Yahoo! answers back then.
2006-10-20 19:39:43 · answer #5 · answered by aghostprofilebeingempty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not ready for the locker thing. But I think
she likes that you noticed her enough to ask.
Just act normal and say "Hi". Let her get to know you.
2006-10-20 19:50:44 · answer #6 · answered by elliebear 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your next move should be to another girl. This one likes to screw around too much.
2006-10-20 19:41:44 · answer #7 · answered by momofthreemiracles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will you be my locker buddy.....how cute!
*sarcasm off*
Has focussing your energies on your studies crossed your mind?
2006-10-20 19:49:56 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAVE ALREADY ANSWERED THIS QUESTION YESTERDAY. I THOUGT I GAVE A GOOD OPINION, WHY ARE YOU ASKING THE SAME EXACT QUESTION AGAIN? GO TO THE FIRST TIME YOU ASKED & CHECK OUT MY RESPONSE. I REALLY THOUGT MY ANSWER COULD HAVE HELPED YOU SORT THINGS OUT.
2006-10-20 19:48:13 · answer #9 · answered by kwhic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm... tough one. it's better to build a relationship from friendship, so just stay cool, be her friend and you're ment for each other it wil just happen! i know this from experience. i'm engaged to my best friend!
2006-10-20 19:39:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋