my mother passed away when i was 26, i was married with 3 small children, although i was and i am grateful i had my mother until then, i have felt lost and lonely since then.feel sad, my children were cheated by death of not growing up without the love of a grandmother. i would just like to hear about someone else who feel the same.
2006-10-20 19:30:54 · 6 answers · asked by wisdom 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
In terms of your question of have I grown up without my mom, the answer is no, I'm still living with her and sometimes tend to take her for granted. That is the truth and to answer your question, I think you were already a grown up when she died so I am in no means trying to be offensive when I say that you also DID grow up with her...and don't worry I think my dad know how you feel because when I was born my grandpa had already been dead for four years. Same thing happend with my older bro; he died a couple months before he was born. Well anyway, at least you got to say good bye with her funeral right? Don't worry I'm sure she's happy where she is and that she sees you with your family all the time and smiles down on you guys.
2006-10-20 20:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Although my mother didnt die, she was still absent from my life. I do wonder what it would have been like with her around more often, but I am very thankful for the support system that did exist in my life. All I can say for you is to just treasure every memory of your dear mother and fill your childrens minds with all the wonderful stories of their grandmother they never had the pleasure of knowing.
2006-10-21 02:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by babyj248 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry for your loss an all you have went through. i did not loose my mother , but my grandmother meant the world to me. and it would of been so nice to have her around her great granchildern as they were growing up. because the influence she had on people was great an everlasting! so i know somewhat of what you are missing.
2006-10-21 02:40:38 · answer #3 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what your going through my mom passed when my son was 2 i was 22,my son was her first grand child and the only one she ever knew,its the worst feeling you can have , she was only 48,
2006-10-21 02:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by Kathy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've grownup with my mother not by my side most of the time. but its fine. just dont let the kid knows what he's/she's missing out and let him/her enjoy his/her childhood. let your kid know that you'll be there whenever they needed someone. (:
2006-10-21 02:36:23 · answer #5 · answered by sqwertx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are very far away apart, is something similar. Is sad,
2006-10-21 02:34:38 · answer #6 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋