sometimes hes nice & loving & like I MISS you...
see you then luv you
well i can say is you'll never be lonely or bored
Babe i g2g...ill see you later. wub you
& then he goes and later he doesnt message me
i wanted HIM to message me so I dont sound desparate or needy or something...
I missed you...
he put I missed you but then like in another conversation as I mentioned he said hed message me & he doesnt
& yesterday he came on & nothing so after a while i said hey & he didnt respond & after 5 mins he went offline so im confused
he wants me badly...
well if you lived here with me, i'd drop you off
if I was there we could go together...
can i come over
want to come live with me?
its obvious he loves me
wub you
kk love your fine ***
sexy muffin
see you then luv you
for you? sure ;)
have fun sexy dina :P
I missed you...
missing you
so my question is am I overreacting? does he need a break?
but why not just tell me Im busy why ignore me?
2006-10-20 19:29:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why does he say hell message me later and he doesnt
why cant he tell me im busy instead of ignoring my hey?
2006-10-20 19:31:22 · update #1
someone said desperate
well we dont talk often as hes in the states and it complicates things because I sleep through most of his day only in like afternoons can we talk and were both kinda busy so its not too much... i know people in relationships that are inseperable every day and we are not like there well I dont think so...
2006-10-20 19:37:27 · update #2
I like what Daddy Big Dawg said... I was gonna do that just like ignore him for a bit and see if hes all i miss you again... if he misses me its his fault... Ill cool off today and maybe tomorrow and see how it goes...
2006-10-20 19:38:58 · update #3
Because (some) women think "i'm busy" somehow means "please talk to me more, I have nothing to do".
When he says he will message you back, it means just that, but when he is ready.
2006-10-20 19:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is a guy and it sounds like you are the one in a relationship not him. if he is an on line friend, he is just keeping his option open. you need to sit down and define what kind of relationship you have with this person. and if you feel it is real enough you shouldn't be afraid or ashamed to tell him, look stop bullshiting me, and take it from there. tell him how you feel. but what ever answer he may give you, "to thy self be true", most people know when they are cheated on, from i "yea i know!" to the faintes glips of "hmmm?"
yes you are over reacting you are seventeen, you should be thinking of having fun, living life, youth is something fades so quickly and never can be regained.
you should define your relationship before you decide wheather or not he needs a break. if he is your man no he doesn't need one, you are his break. if he isn't and you are stressing over him, maybe you need a break.
and if he is ignoring you he probably has something or someone of more intrest to him at the time. most men will say anything just to get a woman. if you feel he keeps holding on to you well he probably is keeping you in the back burner on cold to warm.
don't waste your time, not stessing anyway, there are millions of people looking for someone just like you.
2006-10-21 02:46:55 · answer #2 · answered by diablito69us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kinda have this problem with my bf as well. I know he loves me and he says the sweetest things in the world to me, but he's also a guy and sometimes just wants his space (certain people need different amounts of space - he needs more than I do). Other times he just doesn't think to message me, whereas I think to message him more often. I honestly think it's just a difference between guys and girls. I always tell him that I feel like i'm chasing him sometimes and he just says that he doesn't feel like i'm chasing him and there's not need to feel that way. Ask your bf if you want to know something, otherwise just chill out. :)
2006-10-21 02:33:41 · answer #3 · answered by sarahjaniepoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you need to do is flip the script when your logged on and see him pop up wait for him to respond if he doesn't then log out. Wait for him to make the move, you can ask why about anything forever and never reach a solid answer. Seem disinterested or not caring by him seeming to ignore you and eventually he will wonder where you went.
-NmD!
2006-10-21 02:37:36 · answer #4 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously you do sound a little needy. However, just remember this when your man pulls back, pull back even more, if he likes you a lot he'll freak out from you pulling back and shower you back with attention. But if you pull back,and he doesn't even notice, then thats a pretty clear sign that you need to move on.
2006-10-21 02:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a break let him be the next one to get in touch. If it takes to long (two weeks go by) for him to contact you, then you know he doesn't care about you.
2006-10-21 02:37:23 · answer #6 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably tired of u and looking for a new fresh meat. It's up to u whether u wanna put up w/ him or move on.
2006-10-21 02:33:04 · answer #7 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, my goodness, can you say desperate???
PLEASE get some professional help with your neediness before it drives your poor boyfriend completely insane.
2006-10-21 02:33:09 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to maintain a long distant relationship. hang in there. (:
2006-10-21 02:41:39 · answer #9 · answered by sqwertx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he dus not love you .i no
2006-10-21 02:34:09 · answer #10 · answered by kevin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋