I try my best to look as good as I can every day, and I flirt and everything, but I still cant get any one to date me. And some days, i cant even get them to talk to me! I'm always nice to people even if they arent to me, so i'm not sure what im doing wrong!
2006-10-20 19:21:28 · 13 answers · asked by nineancientdreams 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being nice isn't the only thing you need to do to be asked out. Are you interesting to talk with? Do you keep up with current events and news so you can converse on various subjects? Do you have sports, arts, business interests that you can converse about? How do you try to get people to talk with you? Do you pester them? Do you make casual remarks and expect an answer? How much do you flirt? Many people are turned off by women who flirt. It makes them look like they have loose morals. Flirting should be very subtle and not overt. Do you have a good sense of humor? No one likes the ditsy flirtatious approach so make sure you aren't presenting that sort of image of yourself. Many people also don't want to date coworkers, so don't put the make on people you work with. Make a list of 100 things you would be as a perfect mate. Then do a list of 100 things you want in a perfect mate. If you want to attract the man of your dreams to you, you should make yourself into the kind of woman a man like that would be attracted to. For example, if you want an athletic man, find a sport you can excel at so you'll have something in common with him. If you want an intellectual man, learn how to invest in stocks and bonds, and read as many books as you can get your hands on by classic authors. Take classes to improve your mind and to learn more skills that will put you in a job market where you will meet someone intellectual. Focus on friendship first, and then move on to something more if that is what you and a new friend want. Being single is an opportunity to improve yourself in many ways so you attract the man of your dreams.
2006-10-20 19:38:10 · answer #1 · answered by LadyLgl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Internet dating!! It's so much fun and it gives you the chance to check out tonnes of people and lets tonnes of people check out you. Believe me, as a girl, you'll have more luck online than men. Yes, some of the guys on there are desperate dogs (they're in the bars though too!), but some are really great guys who are having the same problems meeting someone that you are. You can also create a check list of what you're looking for in a man - kind of like shopping!
2006-10-21 02:24:39 · answer #2 · answered by sarahjaniepoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing, and its their loss- not yours. Feel happy your alone for now because you could be stuck in a horrible relationship wishing you where single again. I'm more then sure you'll find that special one, it just takes time and anything great is worth waiting for. So just be patient and when you least expect it fate will be knocking at your door. Don't give people that are mean to you any attention at all, they don't deserve to have it from you.
2006-10-21 03:36:13 · answer #3 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at your body language when you're doing this. Are you smiling when you do this or are you looking down while you have your arms crossed across your chest? Do you look people in the eye or shy away? Do you honestly seem to be interested or do you just think you are? Sometimes you have to pay attention to the signals you send out.
2006-10-21 02:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by coorissee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at yourself in the mirror and see beyond the exterior. Find your true self first and be happy with who you are. Stop looking so hard, it happened to me. When I finally said I am happy with myself and I gave up looking. There he was. Enjoy your time you only live once.
2006-10-21 02:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to just be yourself don't try to impress someone else look and feel comfortable. the right man will come just be patient don't rush to be in love. your trying too hard relax and enjoy life your day will come.
good luck
Ashley
2006-10-21 02:27:43 · answer #6 · answered by ashleyhlldy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-21 02:26:41 · answer #7 · answered by intrigue_ m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to be nice to everybody. If you are nice to somebody and they snub you then forget about that person. No matter how are you try you can't please everybody. So if you try to be nice and they snub you ... Put that person name on the list of people who can kiss your @ss (butt). Then go be nice to somebody else.
2006-10-21 02:28:40 · answer #8 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You try too hard. Act like you don't care. That drives em wild.
2006-10-21 02:23:55 · answer #9 · answered by Brother Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for your turn - the life is long journey.
2006-10-21 02:23:38 · answer #10 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋