please help it puts so much more stress on me and him... I think its pulling down on our relationship
2006-10-20 18:29:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no i haven't ever had one before .. i just dont know what to tell him.. i give him them all the time .. so i dont know why he is so bugged by it well i can kinda tell but its not there faults or jobs i wish i could put that in words for him
2006-10-20 18:38:34 · update #1
wow .. guys are just answering??? any girls have the same experience???
2006-10-20 18:40:28 · update #2
thanks docterphil in training i think u gave the most help so far
2006-10-20 18:44:36 · update #3
put a banana in the microwave until it gets hot, then put it in your poompoom, then get him to put his thingy in your pooper, voila, thank me later
2006-10-20 18:33:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't make having an orgasm a big issue. Men get so caught up in worrying about "getting yours and his" that it has an affect on your sex life. Don't stressed over this. But if he wants to please you sexually, he'll have to meet you halfway on some ways you know or that you're willing to try. I don't know what level you guys are at, but if he performs oral sex on you might help. The clitoral hood and the clitoris is very stimulating because all the nerve endings are on it, so you will "o" pretty good. The issue is with women is that our bodies are not anatomically correct with a hand in glove when getting an orgasm. because the clitoris is on the outside, and the penis goes inside, so it's hard to get any stimulation. Another thing is to get on top, because you can control the motion, and you can move your body to rub against your clit to get stimulation. because missionary position is not going to get it. But in the mean while, tell your man not to worry and just because you don't have an orgasm that doesn't mean that he's not doing the do. I have a difficult time having an orgasm by regular sex, but with oral i definetly get it and i let my man know that it does and he's happy to give me pleasure and that turns him on, and it makes the intercourse better. But don't let it turn down your relationship.... but you both have to be willing to try new things.. Pour honey, or something liquidy on your body and have it lick it off so he doesn't have to dig in.... persay yet.. Make it interesting honey, not stress.. Sex is a stress reliever, not a stress inducer. Good luck honey.
2006-10-20 18:39:10 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Every woman I have had sex with that could not orgasm had one thing in common. They didn't masturbate. In order for you to be able to get to that point with a man, you have to be able to get there yourself. Spend some time exploring your body until you find what will trigger the O. It may take some time and if you are unsure of how your sexual organs work, you will need to learn the details of your vagina. Find the G-spot. It is located about 2 or 3 inches inside the vagina, on the front wall, above and behind the clit. Usually it will feel like a small area of scar tissue about half the size of a dime. Stimulating it may make you feel like you have to pee. Keep rubbing it along with your clit. You have to be supercharged in order to get off though. Maybe a hot novel or light porn will heat you up. Once you can get yourself off, it will be easier for him to get you off. Good luck.
2006-10-20 18:38:31 · answer #3 · answered by m-t-nest 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is stimulating your clitorus, you are relaxed and not stressed then you should achieve the big O. If not... You probably have either a physical or mental problem and need to seek professional help.
Should he not be stimulating your clitorus, he needs to learn how or... Contact me for private 1 on 1 help (lol)
2006-10-20 18:37:21 · answer #4 · answered by Scott G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya that's a tough one for guys to deal with. It's really an ego buster for us. More than likely he's trying everything he knows and then some to get you to have one. It sounds like the sex is making you feel down about yourself too... I don't konw if you have had them with ex's (if you have then it's prolly a good idea to end it) if you havn't then maybe just fake one... but don't EVER admit to him that you faked one.
2006-10-20 18:34:54 · answer #5 · answered by travis R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 01:43:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay... here comes the secret to great sex everytime with a woman. It takes work but hey... its really worth it.
First of all, he needs to touch you all over... massage, kissing, rubbing, everything,
He SLOWLY makes his way to the vagina and softly rubs it. He continues kissing and caressing all over.
He should not penetrate you until you are going wild wanting it.
You should begin to really get into it and girating. When until you feel you are ready to explode, only then does he penetrate. It's pretty hard to miss your mark by that time!
Happy OOOOOOOOOO-O?!?!!!!!
2006-10-20 18:48:32 · answer #7 · answered by David M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well maybe you need to relaxmore...and explain to him that it isnt him..and tell him he's great. I used to hjave that problem when I first started going out with my bf, now Im extremely comfterbal and can do anything..so I know what to do to satisfy me.
2006-10-20 18:33:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How the hell are WE going to help, short of giving you an orgasm? What, do you want one of us to give him a pep talk? Dur!
2006-10-20 18:38:10 · answer #9 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIVE him the big 0 you know he wants it
2006-10-20 18:33:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋