I know this really nice and good looking girl and we got to know each other for about a month and we look like a good pair, have a lot of things in common, I asked her 2 homecoming, but shes going wit a junior she got my message I sent her , and came up to me and told me slowly and sweetly that she was REALLY sorry she couldn’t go with me and that if I asked earlier she would have said yes to me, I said it was ok, now we’re getting to know each other even more and the homecoming foot ball game is coming up should I ask her to get a drink with me at it? and hers another problem: another girl is hinting to me that she likes me, always saying hi cheerfully to me and always commenting me on my myspace, I like her as a friend... wat do I do, who do I choose? I’m confused!
2006-10-20 17:39:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, if you're not attracted to the girl that likes you, then don't give her false hopes....because that really hurts, trust me I know, I am going through that right now, now I found out he never liked me......anyways, just tell her nicely that you would love to be her friend, or tell her you already like someone else, of course that will hurt her, but it's better if she finds out from you!
And if you like the other girl, then ask her to the game and hopefully she will accept........But don't get too excited, sometimes girls are being nice and guys take things the other way......it's the same with guys, you guys do the same as well......So just be careful!! Good Luck
2006-10-20 18:12:15 · answer #1 · answered by hey_amt95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hedge your bets. Keep the new girl in reserve, as your 'friend', while you figure out whether you and girl #1 have any potential beyond 'just friends'. If you don't, then you can move on to the new girl and even use your relationship with girl #1 to your advantage (tell girl #2 that you chose her over #1). Good luck, and consider a spelling aid.
2006-10-21 00:42:56 · answer #2 · answered by Chuck F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you show your true feelings to both of the girls and if it doesn't work out you just have 2 moov on wit life cuz there is many girls out there. And noticing how u said girl and not woman I think u shood less fokis on gurls and finish high school.
2006-10-21 00:45:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER pretend to like a girl you're not interested in. it'll hurt her when she finds out, but it'll hurt more if she finds out you were leading her on. don't over do it with the girl you really like. she might think you're possesive. back off for a little while. don't threaten another boyfriend. girl don't like that. trust me i know.
2006-10-21 00:46:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your young. play the field. don't push either into thinking anything then it will sort itself out. sure get a drink with the one girl, but continue to flirt with the other. keep your options open.
2006-10-21 00:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont have to choose...
there is no contest, the homecoming girl is the run away winner!
2006-10-21 00:44:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont need to choose. You can date them both. It's called,
DATING.
2006-10-21 00:42:57 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont settle get the girl u want if she is worth fighting for that do it!!
2006-10-21 00:42:58 · answer #8 · answered by suzi t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chosse the best and the one you really love.
2006-10-21 00:45:22 · answer #9 · answered by jacky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋