me and him have been going out for like TWO days. me and him were walkin home for school and we were holding hands and all that stuff, and then wen we got to my house we huged and said bye. Then later that day i went to his house & iwas in his roomand then out of nowhere he said "your'e really really prude!" and im like wat have ive done to make you think that im prude? and then he said " well at lunch today i tried holding your hand and you pulled away" and i swear he never did that or ididnt notice that he did that. The he said "dont worry i used to be prude i know how it feels"....DO YOU KNOW HOW MAD I GOT WHEN HE SAID THAT TO ME?? WAT DOES HE WANNT ME TO DO WEV'E ONLY BEEN GOING OUT FOR 2 DAYS!!! HE'S THE ONE WHO DOESNT WANT TO BE AFFECTIONATE IN PUBLIC!! but then that got me to start thinking, is he only with me cuz of my looks? or cuz he really likes me? ijust dont want him to break up with me cuz he thinks im prude. cuz ilike him sooo much. wat do i do???????????????????????
2006-10-20 17:23:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but ireally like himlike alot.
2006-10-20 17:58:25 · update #1
bye bye birdie
2006-10-20 17:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well first of all, the fact that you have been dating for TWO whole days shows this is a serious relationship for sure. Is that wedding bells I hear? But if you really want to prove to him you are not a prude, the next time he comes to pick you up, go to the door to meet him stark naked. That will shut him up about the subject.
2006-10-20 17:30:01 · answer #2 · answered by alanpvr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's playing mind games to start controlling you.
LOOK OUT, if this is the way he starts, he's going to want to control every thought and every action you take. Probably because he is insecure that you are better looking or more popular or something than him, so he's trying to control you big time AND GUESS WHAT you just fell for it by reacting the way you did.
Instead of you thinking "there's something worong with him, not me" you started thinking ohhh, how can I please him. He's got you exactly where he wants you: jumping at his mind games.
Tell him you're not mutually exclusive until he shapes up, until then you will see other guys. And have ready what you're going to tell him about how he acted.
2006-10-20 17:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by center of the universe 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him what you told us here."Look numbnuts we've only been going out for 2 days! What the heck are you talking about?Obviously you don't know me well enough to call me stupid names like that. How would you like it if i called stupid?" That ought to shut him up for a couple of minutes.If he breaks up with you because he's too dumb to figure out whats going on then hold the door open for him and tell him to get going.There's plently of guys out there who wouldn't be so dumb as to label a girl that they've just started going out with.Sheesh!
2006-10-20 17:32:30 · answer #4 · answered by Yahooanswerssux 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a smooth operator... He comes out and says, "I'm willing to help you get over it..." You're in HIS room and you're a prude?
You don't have any idea what he means? He's saying you're a prude because you're not tearing into him in his room and having sex...
Kick him to the curb!!! He's trying to manipulate you into sex this early in life... FUHGET about him... Move on to a decent guy.
2006-10-20 17:30:18 · answer #5 · answered by James B 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to put a guilt trip on you so you will do what he wants. He wants you to defend yourself by proving you are not a prude.
2006-10-20 17:29:54 · answer #6 · answered by taurus 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He is a jerk. Dump him.
You will probably attract a lot of guys like this. I would recommend seeing a therapist to find out why.
2006-10-20 17:32:39 · answer #7 · answered by j240na9u0jg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try THINKing...and by the way, don't go to his house, much less his room, especially after only going out for 2 days.
2006-10-20 17:33:08 · answer #8 · answered by cryllie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both might be to young to be in a relationship, or just he might be.
2006-10-20 17:25:50 · answer #9 · answered by KindomCome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its games, mind games..tell him you grew up a long time ago and you dont play games no more...move on he is a loser....
2006-10-20 17:34:01 · answer #10 · answered by countryrose24 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋