i have alot of friends who r boys rigt but my boy friend thinks that their more than friends and is going to get into fight what do I do! :-(
2006-10-20 16:59:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl my dude is the same way all i hang around is dudes so he get's jealous if your man is hype it's cause he loves you and he's scared to lose you so respect that but still just reassure him that he's the only dude for you let him meet a couple of the guys and if he desn't want to do that jut tell him he's got to learn to trust you or it will never work out!Holla at ya girl!
2006-10-20 17:06:33 · answer #1 · answered by Slim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your boyfriend has to learn to trust you. I have alot of girls that are friends and my girlfriend might get jealous every once in a while when i spend a lot of time with them but she trust me and so does suspect anything. I respect that as well by never violating her trust in me. He has to learn to trust that you won't do anythign with these other guys and if her can't then maybe you and him need to have a talk about trust because it's important in a relationship.
2006-10-20 17:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what i do. show him that you have trust in him and maybe he'll trust you. He's alot like my boyfriend is at this moment. to over protective. if you make him realize that there just friends then maybe he will come to the conclusion that your right and quit trying to be a bad a55. My boyfriend is way to over protective but slowly learning everyday that he can trust me. He's just affraid that he's gonna lose you to one of those other guys. If he dont realize it soon then he will more than likely he will push you away for good.
2006-10-20 17:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by babygyrl19832000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 12:37:01 · answer #4 · answered by cosco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same prob with my fiance at the moment we are both still young but she seems to have alot of friends that are male (and to top it off she has cheated befor) but we are not talking about me now are we lol...ok well first off it is just a guy thing we can be very posessive its in our nature. the best thing i can suggest is to just keep reasuring him that nothing is wrong ok. and also spend alot of time with him i mean never neglect your friends but convince him to meet them spend time with them and get to know them eventualy he will see that there is nothing going on and he will soon most likly become friends with them also. but trust me guys have primitave minds and we can act like animals if we think we are going to lose some1 we love. but at the same time it doesnt take much to convince us nothing is wrong lol
2006-10-20 17:05:08 · answer #5 · answered by funluvenguy2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
prove it 2 him! kiss him if u really like him,and if he still doesnt listen,it isnt about u anymore.It is about him and his pride and insecurities.If he still fights,breakup with him and find some1 better who will love u more.and if u cant,stay single 4 a while.it is good 4 ur heart
2006-10-20 17:03:06 · answer #6 · answered by chocolate tea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happend to me too. but you no what i did... even thou i do lik my guy friends i stopd hanging out with them and talking to them, at least not how i used to. your main guy right now is your bf not ur guy freinds, plus guy friends can be really dumb sum times and can do sum stupid things too. i think you shoul dback off with the guy freinds and hang out more with your bf.
2006-10-20 17:06:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him feel special. Like, do stuff with him that he knows you wouldn't do with anyone else. Not going any further.
2006-10-20 17:05:47 · answer #8 · answered by scott m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain that it if stupid for him to fight over something like that and to quit being immature and grow up!
2006-10-20 17:04:14 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say that you'll break up with him if he fights with them.
2006-10-20 17:02:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋