hi last year i went out wit a guy and he dumped me then asked me out a month later i acted compleatly dumb cuz i took him back then this summer i went on vacation to thailand i come back and the day we open skool he dumps me and asks my best friend out!!! the thing with it is that i felt hurt and my friend says that she only went out with him so she could get him back for me but i don't think so ....... please help me!!
2006-10-20 16:54:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey there! Well...if it makes you feel any better, I know how you feel, Ive been through this before. Only it was a tad bit different. Well, if you dont think that she is with him to get back at him for you, thats one thing. But the entire fact by itself that she is even with him is another thing. So, to make a long story short, she is not one of your real, true friends. If she was, she would never ever in her life do that even if you said it was okay. That thought would probably never cross her mind if she was a real friend. So, you need to talk to her, one on one, face to face. Not in a note, email, myspace comment, etc. Tell her straight up how you feel and pour out all of your feelings to her. Then it will be her turn. Then it will just go back and fourth from you to her, you to her, until there is a conclusion. So, thats my advice to you.
Good Luck!
2006-10-20 17:01:34 · answer #1 · answered by urbestluver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first off your friend is talking crap she doesnt want to get him back she wants him. so ditch her. second sweety he isnt worth your time he sounds like a wanker. you also have to concider while u where away there were probebly seeing each other. but the best thing i can suggest is leave them to it eventualy he will cheat on your supposed friend and/or leave her for some1 else and she will come running back to you. dont let her back into your life or him as they WILL hurt u again. i wish u all the best sweety and i hope you find some1 who will treat you right...
2006-10-20 16:58:48 · answer #2 · answered by funluvenguy2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i assume it relies upon if he nevertheless needs to be a participant. My ex and that i nevertheless communicate approximately getting returned mutually, however the timing ought to be top. i've got been relationship some women human beings at the instant and he or she's relationship a clean guy, yet we've enable one yet another understand that we nevertheless think of roughly one yet another. i think of the sensation ought to be mutual. do no longer chase after him by way of fact then he will use it against you. in simple terms enable him understand the way you sense and if he nevertheless cares then he might desire to fulfill you 0.5 way.
2016-10-15 06:15:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of the friend. i'm not seeing how her going out with him would be a form of getting back at him. you don't need people like him or her in your life. move and and thank God that at least he helped take 2 losers off your hands.
2006-10-20 16:59:09 · answer #4 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither one of these people are worth giving the time of day to. The both sound jealous of your travels and I would just say seeya and move on with my life.
2006-10-20 16:57:12 · answer #5 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new boyfriend and best friend. don't let people walk all over you. there are plenty of guys out there that will treat you great, but you have to wait to find them.
2006-10-20 16:57:48 · answer #6 · answered by Kerry S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him why he did so and tell him that it really hurt. Maybe that will help
2006-10-20 16:58:08 · answer #7 · answered by kia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same thing happened to me..... i think all you have to do is forgice and forget. The guy did not deserve you.....
2006-10-20 16:56:36 · answer #8 · answered by limey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your bf all the ways that your ex liked it
2006-10-20 16:56:04 · answer #9 · answered by someone_you_wish_you_knew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so sad um therapy works!
2006-10-20 16:57:01 · answer #10 · answered by my_emo_romance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋